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typical dick in a glass jar situation. it always comes down to self-worth, how do you value yourself?
lets look at the facts, there IS no such thing as friendship between men and women. men and women who are friends, will always end up becomming much more than friends -- this all depends on how much time they spend together. obviously, the more time you spend "hanging out" with a friend of the opposite sex, the more comfortable you'll get with them. eventually, one person will reach their breaking point (either horniness [man] or loneliness [woman]) and will do something stupid to show their feelings for the other person. its not necessarily stupid, but when you try to be just friends from that point in.. there's NO return -- in my opinion, this is a great thing. i'm always down for a little destruction and havoc.
so, the point here.. is what do YOU want. if you're a bench player sitting on the sidelines hoping you're going to get play-time in the finals -- good luck! what you SHOULD be doing is still somewhat keep in touch with her, but start going out with other girls and share these stories with her.. let her know what you are going through with your dating experiences and such. she'll end up getting jealous and will want you, and you on the other hand, will have fun going out (possibly sleeping too if you have game) with other women.
AND, if you're lucky.. you'll meet a girl who is even MORE fresh than this confused ass trifling biatch who isnt giving you the time of day right now. if that happens, then you can kick this chick to the curb and she'll be at your mercy trying to hookup with you.. which gives you an even greater advantage point.
you can thank me later, good luck.
- mike
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