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you guys are really helping me out here. i'm gunna talk to her about being more understanding about this hobby. the major problem was the money. in 2-3 years here parents are retiring and moving home to the Philippines. this is forcing her to move out; so she had been making plans. she wants me with her obviously, but money matters don't see it happening for me.

we're both going into nursing: me a nurse anesthesiologist, and her a registered nurse to work at the er. we have helped each other plan or futures. matter of fact, one of my friends (Antonio) was the only male nurse that worked at the nursing home I work at now. he said he was singled out for being a guy. but he was supporting his family. i've always seen him as a person to follow. a good example.

one of the things he told me was,"Try to stay under your parents' wings for a while at their house. Once you move out, all the expenses are yours and you may regret it later on. That ride of yours won't be lookin so pretty any more. haha."

I've taken that to heart and seen it as a reality. I guess that's why i rather not get i place of my own with my g/f.

I'm blabbing. I guess for maturity's sake, I'm going to open a savings account at the bank and start to fill it up bi-weekly. For whatever situation may be coming.

If anyone else has some suggestions/stories/advise please post, it would be really helpful for me...