Wow, first you tell us about how you made a guy look bad and then almost cheated on your wife. When someone calls you on it, you make a statement of making sure you still have game and being able to make the play, as long as you don't make completion.
Now I am sitting here thinking damn, this guy thinks its alright because he has not actually done the act but has lead someone to believe he would. You ever stop to think about the other person? You ever stop to think if one of your wifes friends saw this little interaction in its entirety what it would look like? Is it even fair to that girl to say what you said leading her on on two fronts? No. Not only did you come on suggestively but you gave her the idea you could help her on her job. One word for this sleaze manauver. ETHICS which you seem to lack.
Basically you have pretty much cheated in your heart. If you really love your wife you would not even be checking your game. If you think you do love your wife, yet you still ask why your married and check your game, you my friend have serious issues that your ignoring and need to look at.
You have taken the its ok to look but not touch explanation to a whole new level of extrapolation and rationalized it. Albeit on the ethically challenged side at that.
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