[Mi Beardo es Loco]

Originally Posted by ThatGuy

My wife had a miscarriage with our first, way back in 2000. It was tough, especially on her. My wife fell in to a pretty serious bout with depression.

Make sure you are as supportive as you can be to her. It's not her fault, by any means, and make sure she knows that. Unfortunately, these things happen from time to time. Just show her that you are still there for her. Even if you are dealing with your own issues about it, she needs to know you're there.

It took us over two years to try again. Here we are today with 4 kids, though. We still think about what could've been, that life we never got watch, and it still hurts a bit, but we're still here for each other, and we've got a wonderful family now.

I wish you nothing but the best. Stay strong, for her.

same with mine. My wife had a miscarrage on our first try but was successful on the next try. Our daughter is now 6 weeks old. We hesitated to tell our parents because we were scared that we were going to announce it and have another miscarrage. That kind of news kinda needs to be delt w/ by you and your wife, not the family.