Freaq thanks, that is exactly what I needed and was what I was thinking, considering that everything works out well and we can visit eachother and spend some quality time and get to know what it would be like to live with eachother then go off that basis. I honestly didn't know what to say to her when she told me everything and how she planned to come to the states just to visit me because I haven't ever had someone be so direct or go to such a length to see me.
I'm not quite sure how everything will pan out considering I have 2 car projects my work, some family stuff going on so its not like I can drop everything like you said just to go to germany there is just honestly too much on my plate and this just adds to it.
I guess when she gets here we will just have to see how things work and take things from there.
This is the girl in question, Aleksandra, most recent pic I have of her, girl on the left
