Yea same here. I hate seeing my car like this, but it's not as bad as it could've been. Thankfully though, a good friend of mine has owned a body shop in the past, (he's about 55-56 years old) and is very good at doing body work, aswell as painting cars. He still does some body work out of his garage, as side jobs, and this will be cake for him. So hopefully he has some time next week open, and can get my baby straightened out. I'll post pictures as soon as she's lookin' good again.
Oh yea, here's the bumper of the mini-van I hit.

He was cool about it and is gonna get a quote from a shop, and I'll just pay for the damage my self, instead of going through my insurance. I don't want my insurance to get me for this.