originally i planned to put this post in the WTB section but i changed my mind because i could not buy from a private seller (don't have that much cash on hand) and so i thought i'd try my luck here.
thanks crypticfury85 for the good links. i will try them!
and to S13SilviaGirl. yes, yes, and depends. depends on how bad you want it.
pm me if you're really interested.