I think the most important thing I learned in drifting is to let the wheel do most of the work. I try to keep my hands at 9ish and 3ish positions. The car does a good job of steering itself sometimes (in my opinion).
Here is an in-car of me from a while ago. The first run sucks and the second run I have to react to a barrier hit, but other than that, I think it shows what my hands do. Car was running half assed, so I was struggling a lot trying to get enough power to make it around the track.
YouTube - DRIFTING (IN CAR) @ ZIPTIED EVENT (#2)
The more you go out there, the more you'll get it. Best thing to do is relax and not over think it.