I have two kids , my eldest will be a thirteen in May.Bare with me ..Children are like fruit trees .You have to Talk to them ,nourish them ,give great care and be vigilant of weeds and pests. You have to Prune them ,to prevent wild growth and keep them from getting in their own way.All this is done so they can be fruitfull in harvest time.
The Day I became a father was my most blessed Day and also the scariest day of my life.Now There was some one more important than me or any one else in my life(if your a parent ,you know what I mean), some one who I was solely responsible for. As you look around and see the Decay of our society you want to protect and segragate your child from every form of evil.Truthfully you cant. You teach your kids by example .You hope and pray they make the right decisions, to, love themselves and to hang on to their dignity.
I have both my kids involved football , My son is a QB .My daughter a cheer leader. I never played football .I Love the lessons of life it teaches.As an Older Nissan motorsport enthusiast ,I dont have time any more to do what I want ,(I took them everywhere to car shows Drifting events up and down California before he fell in love with football) , and thats Ok. I Gladly give up my weekends to be with my wife and kids to pursue my childrens dreams .My son sleeps and breathes football ,and now I do too ,even off season we train and travell to football camps.You see its not about me , its about them ...Thats whats wrong with alot of parents with kids growing up wild.The Parents put themselves first above anything , and leave their kids to the world.
You want to go Fishing ? you need a license.
you want to drive a car? you need a license .
you want to buy a gun and carry it ? you need a license .
hunting? need a license
you want a Dog? need a license
You dont need one to have kids...Its is a huge responsability, I am responsible for my childrens welfare and moral upbringing..The kids Uncle in the video ,gets it.
Just my two cents...
oh almost forgot, He still loves my ol s13 silvia conversion and drifting.Wants to drive it when he gets older ,to HS. Thats another story.
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