*update*
After my 15-20 min drive to work, I checked the Temps and The gauge in the Upper hose Read 56 degrees (which Took that amount of time to get to that temp -
WIth a smallpeice of cardboard between the Condensor and radiator This time)
***halfway through my Drive I turn the heater on and Cold air was coming out.
I Turned heat on when I pulled in my parking Spot and heat blew Warm/Hot for a sec or 2, and the more fan speed I raised it to it started getting colder untill it was cool air. Not warm. 
My Factory Gauge since the Thermostat replacement does read a tad higher now Than it use to sit on the needle for sure. But still no idea what the deal is.
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Setup:
SR20 2871,cams,FMIC and Running all A/C components (condenser in the front Bumper) etc
Alum Radiator with Stock Clutch fan and Shroud and a/c fan installed.
Toyota Red 50/50 coolant
10w40 oil Non-syn
What Could I do to get the engine to Run Hotter? Switch Coolant??