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I really appreciate the replies guys ( and gals).....This is so hard on me....we've been together for two years, hardly ever fight, have so much in common, and have talked numerous times of our future together and I thought everything was a breeze from there....until this totally blind sides me. She has never expressed interest in any drugs or alcohol before.....the two times she drank she found herself over a toilet the next morning.....I want her to have all the fun she can and any friends she wants, but I've heard so many bad things from different people about this particualr girl....smokes, drinks, ecstasy, ect...who knows where it ends.....and she's dragging my girl into this shit and it 's freakin me out. I'm caught between a rock and hardplace....if I badmouth this girl then I'm "jealous" and if I act like nothings wrong.....I'm afraid what might happen. I hate to rant everybody....I'm sure you can understand....this is one of my few outlets I have to find any info.....thank you all so much and wish me luck in turning all this around.
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