Wow, I thought for sure more people would know about nissan techmate.
This is where you can buy OEM connectors, it's for dealers to stock their repair kits, but I'm fairly sure a anyone is allowed to purchase from here. Fair warning, they are quite expensive IMO but if it's the last part to finish a project, it's totally worth it.
It does take a little time to figure out which one you need is correct (there are quite a few connectors that look very similar).
Here is a link to a post of a guy who linked the techmate page, and a pdf will all of the connectors stocked for dealers to restock there wire harness repair kits.
http://x.nissanhelp.com/forums/gener...mber-list.html
And the main techmate page.
https://tools.nissantechmate.com/en-US/Pages/Home.aspx
Took me quite a while to find this page, and while I haven't bought anything from them, it has been quite useful in my search for connectors.
Hope everyone can benefit from this.
-Kyle