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Kaifd3s · 02-12-2012, 07:44 AM

I work at a bank, this cute girl comes in and I'm helping her out with her banking problems. So we start talking and making jokes. I have to update her profile so I start asking her all these questions and she just answers them no problem.

We finish everything and she leaves. So I look her up on facebook (shes single), and it seems when she was sitting in my office she posted that I was cute. Im thinking I should put on the mack, but I dont want to seem stalker-ish. How should I begin my approach fellas?

**ThatGuy** · 02-12-2012, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaifd3s

I dont want to seem stalker-ish.

Too late for that, clearly.

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Originally Posted by Kaifd3s

...I start asking her all these questions... ...So I look her up on facebook...

KiLLeR2001 · 02-12-2012, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by ThatGuy

Too late for that, clearly.

Hahaha.

edit: And OP, while you were asking her questions updating her profile, your last question should have been, "So what time should I pick you up on Saturday?"

Boom.

iamthewinner · 02-12-2012, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ThatGuy

Too late for that, clearly.

hahahahahah kilt it

Biggie-Stig · 02-12-2012, 07:55 AM

Its a little late for it but u should just tell her
"I'm not telling you this to impress you or anything, but I'm Batman"

Lol

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DJ-of-E · 02-12-2012, 09:55 AM

Too late, if you want to avoid looking like a stalker, you have to wait until you comes in next time.

Killer pretty much has the best pickup if you were helping her. Other than that, you have to just compliment her a bit and then ask her out. I just hope you doesn't have a facebook app that lets her see who last visited her, haha

scottie · 02-12-2012, 10:16 AM

Eye contact is a big deal. You MUST wait til she comes back. If you reach out to her it will appear stalker'ish for sure. She may even accuse you of looking thru her personal info which is illegal.

She comes back, make eye contact, crack some jokes then lead into something not in her profile at the bank. As in what des she like to do in her free time. Regardless what she says agree lol. Then lead into something where it would be an easy out for her to say no. Typically if you make a girl laugh and non threatened you have a good chance to see her again. This is usually the approach I take unless you can tell she likes "to the point, skip dinner and lets get it on". Those are not the norm in my area.

sil80owner · 02-12-2012, 10:54 AM

kill yourself that way she will feel bad that she never got to date you.....next time she wnt beat around the bush and straightup ask you to get down and dirty

JK Just say to yourself fuck it.. come off as a stalker but let her know she was worth the risk of you getting called that by her. Why well because whats the probability she will come inside again? few months? maybe when its not even your shift? not worth losing what potentially could be yours. Take the risk be a man

sil80owner · 02-12-2012, 10:57 AM

Then again....you'll look like a serious stalker lol

bataangpinoy · 02-12-2012, 11:03 AM

should have asked her for coffee.

LimeLite Racing · 02-13-2012, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by bataangpinoy

should have asked her for coffee.

Men don't take chicks out to coffee. Take her out to whiskey shots!

240drifter1 · 02-12-2012, 11:14 AM

Next time she comes in ask her on a date, if she says no just steal her idenity.

yvang07 · 02-12-2012, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by 240drifter1

Next time she comes in ask her on a date, if she says no just steal her idenity.

QFT

msglength

treken2t87 · 02-12-2012, 11:19 AM

oh no you remembered her name and looked her up on facebook...fucking message her already before you really start to stalk her

DJ-of-E · 02-12-2012, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaifd3s

So we start talking and making jokes. I have to update her profile so I start asking her all these questions and she just answers them no problem.

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Originally Posted by treken2t87

oh no you remembered her name and looked her up on facebook...fucking message her already before you really start to stalk her

haha too late.

Daniel. · 02-12-2012, 12:35 PM

You missed your chance. Plenty of other opportunities, if you have real game.

TougeLove · 02-12-2012, 12:42 PM

if you just want to hook up, wait for her to come back. if you think she's "the one" go to her.

boms · 02-12-2012, 12:44 PM

thanks for my sunday lolz

I LUV MY S13 · 02-12-2012, 01:18 PM

On a scale of 1-5 how bad do you wanna ask her? 4-5 fuck it message her, opportunity may never arise again. Anything below 4 wait I guess..

no slide · 02-12-2012, 01:20 PM

sack up and just ask. its not that hard. if you never ask, the answer will always be no

lumiester123 · 02-12-2012, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Biggie-Stig

Its a little late for it but u should just tell her
"I'm not telling you this to impress you or anything, but I'm Batman"

Lol

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I work at a bank too and I have done and used a couple methods but I am going to use this lol

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*fliprayzin240sx* · 02-12-2012, 01:55 PM

Like already said, you're best bet is to wait for her to come back. That will probably not happen for a loooooooong time.

Or you can hit her up in FB since you already looked her up. One of two things will happen, she's either gonna be cool about it or she's gonna get freaked the fuck out. If she gets freaked the fuck out, 2 possible scenario can happen. She can either ignore you and nothing happens or she can make a big enough fuss about it and report you to your work for being unprofessional, blah blah blah...

chriskilla2 · 02-12-2012, 02:15 PM

message her on fb saying u found something and u were wondering if it was hers.

u stay somewhat professional, have an introduction, and she has to reply to that. what happens next is up to how much game u have

Daniel. · 02-12-2012, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by chriskilla2

message her on fb saying u found something and u were wondering if it was hers.

u stay somewhat professional, have an introduction, and she has to reply to that. what happens next is up to how much game u have

terrible idea. What could he have found that could plausibly even be hers? He's still messaging her on FB, which is extremely stalkerish.

iamthewinner · 02-12-2012, 02:27 PM

start carrying binoculars

NNOCENT · 02-12-2012, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by iamthewinner

start carrying binoculars

hahahahahahahahha

boms · 02-12-2012, 02:38 PM

lol whats her name..ill hit her up for you.

but i think you should wait until she comes back.. Obviously she will be in at some point. Thats where her moneyzz be.

upsdude · 02-12-2012, 02:41 PM

man up and just ask her out. women like guys with confidence.

only hitch is that you work with her...that could be no bueno in the future

boms · 02-12-2012, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by upsdude

man up and just ask her out. women like guys with confidence.

only hitch is that you work with her...that could be no bueno in the future

upsdude · 02-12-2012, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by boms

hahaha i reread op's post...ok i admit reading comprehension owns me

but still just ask her out! :P

02-12-2012, 07:44 AM	#1
Kaifd3s Zilvia Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Tamarac, Florida Age: 39 Posts: 694 Trader Rating: (16) Feedback Score: 16 reviews	How To Approach This Chick? I work at a bank, this cute girl comes in and I'm helping her out with her banking problems. So we start talking and making jokes. I have to update her profile so I start asking her all these questions and she just answers them no problem. We finish everything and she leaves. So I look her up on facebook (shes single), and it seems when she was sitting in my office she posted that I was cute. Im thinking I should put on the mack, but I dont want to seem stalker-ish. How should I begin my approach fellas? __________________

02-12-2012, 11:19 AM	#14
treken2t87 Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Indianapolis, IN Age: 38 Posts: 337 Trader Rating: (4) Feedback Score: 4 reviews	oh no you remembered her name and looked her up on facebook...fucking message her already before you really start to stalk her __________________

02-12-2012, 12:35 PM	#16
Daniel. Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: San Jose, CA Age: 40 Posts: 3,713 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: Daniel. Feedback Score: 0 reviews	You missed your chance. Plenty of other opportunities, if you have real game. __________________

02-12-2012, 01:18 PM	#19
I LUV MY S13 Post Whore! Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Norwalk, Los Angeles Age: 35 Posts: 3,349 Trader Rating: (35) Rides Gallery: I LUV MY S13 Feedback Score: 35 reviews	On a scale of 1-5 how bad do you wanna ask her? 4-5 fuck it message her, opportunity may never arise again. Anything below 4 wait I guess.. __________________ -Jorge

02-12-2012, 01:55 PM	#22
fliprayzin240sx Man w/ CTSV & a Car Seat Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Tampa Posts: 17,998 Trader Rating: (19) Rides Gallery: fliprayzin240sx Feedback Score: 19 reviews	Like already said, you're best bet is to wait for her to come back. That will probably not happen for a loooooooong time. Or you can hit her up in FB since you already looked her up. One of two things will happen, she's either gonna be cool about it or she's gonna get freaked the fuck out. If she gets freaked the fuck out, 2 possible scenario can happen. She can either ignore you and nothing happens or she can make a big enough fuss about it and report you to your work for being unprofessional, blah blah blah... __________________ If you think Zilvia has too many assholes... CLICK HERE!!!

02-12-2012, 07:55 AM	#5
Biggie-Stig Zilvia Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: six mile, sc Age: 45 Posts: 263 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	Its a little late for it but u should just tell her "I'm not telling you this to impress you or anything, but I'm Batman" Lol Sent from my MB860 using Tapatalk

02-12-2012, 10:16 AM	#7
scottie Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: asluT Posts: 1,287 Trader Rating: (11) Feedback Score: 11 reviews	Eye contact is a big deal. You MUST wait til she comes back. If you reach out to her it will appear stalker'ish for sure. She may even accuse you of looking thru her personal info which is illegal. She comes back, make eye contact, crack some jokes then lead into something not in her profile at the bank. As in what des she like to do in her free time. Regardless what she says agree lol. Then lead into something where it would be an easy out for her to say no. Typically if you make a girl laugh and non threatened you have a good chance to see her again. This is usually the approach I take unless you can tell she likes "to the point, skip dinner and lets get it on". Those are not the norm in my area.

02-12-2012, 10:54 AM	#8
sil80owner Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ca Age: 34 Posts: 453 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	kill yourself that way she will feel bad that she never got to date you.....next time she wnt beat around the bush and straightup ask you to get down and dirty JK Just say to yourself fuck it.. come off as a stalker but let her know she was worth the risk of you getting called that by her. Why well because whats the probability she will come inside again? few months? maybe when its not even your shift? not worth losing what potentially could be yours. Take the risk be a man

02-12-2012, 10:57 AM	#9
sil80owner Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ca Age: 34 Posts: 453 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Then again....you'll look like a serious stalker lol

02-12-2012, 11:03 AM	#10
bataangpinoy Zilvia Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: caves Age: 32 Posts: 860 Trader Rating: (7) Feedback Score: 7 reviews	should have asked her for coffee.

02-12-2012, 11:14 AM	#12
240drifter1 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Knoxville, TN Posts: 1,505 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	Next time she comes in ask her on a date, if she says no just steal her idenity.

02-12-2012, 12:44 PM	#18
boms Zilvia Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: sc Age: 36 Posts: 167 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	thanks for my sunday lolz

02-12-2012, 01:20 PM	#20
no slide Zilvia Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: rancho Age: 43 Posts: 246 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	sack up and just ask. its not that hard. if you never ask, the answer will always be no

02-12-2012, 02:15 PM	#23
chriskilla2 Zilvia Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: TX Posts: 196 Trader Rating: (7) Feedback Score: 7 reviews	message her on fb saying u found something and u were wondering if it was hers. u stay somewhat professional, have an introduction, and she has to reply to that. what happens next is up to how much game u have

02-12-2012, 02:27 PM	#25
iamthewinner BANNED Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: fl Posts: 162 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	start carrying binoculars

02-12-2012, 02:38 PM	#27
boms Zilvia Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: sc Age: 36 Posts: 167 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	lol whats her name..ill hit her up for you. but i think you should wait until she comes back.. Obviously she will be in at some point. Thats where her moneyzz be.

02-12-2012, 02:41 PM	#28
upsdude Post Whore! Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Fontana (the good part) Posts: 2,721 Trader Rating: (46) Rides Gallery: upsdude Feedback Score: 46 reviews	man up and just ask her out. women like guys with confidence. only hitch is that you work with her...that could be no bueno in the future