93 240sx with rb25det no cranking

[93rbs13]

so ive got a 93 hatch, recently put an rb25det in it.
heres the problem, i purchased the wiring specialties swap harness, i hooked everything up according to their instructions on the wiring specialites site.
i hooked a plug up wrong and everytime i hooked up b+ the starter would turn over. so that was wrong, so i switched up the wiring and hooked in the starter solenoid
so the motor is not cranking over at all, i get reverse lights high beams( no low beams ) and just about everything else that gets power has it, ( not hearing the FP prime at all ) so when i was testing power with my test light i get power at one of the plugs when i turn the key to try and crank it i get power at that plug, but when i move the test light to the starter solenoid plug ( the spade terminal on the starter ) i dont get any power. any help would be awesome !