Silvia Headlight wiring help??

[MrFairlady]

Ok..I'm up to this point of being finished and Almost every thread I've found has 'dead" links,no pic's.

I've got the dual projector headlights and THEY will not work.The Wiring looks ok at the harness and everything plugs up.My JDM lights came w/ everything & I even got the fogs working fine because I spliced in off the Motor harness so the pop switch inside will turn them off and on,..though not sure if it works like that or not..
but the High beams and low beams do NOTHING.Is there anything else I'm supposed to do w/ the headlight Motor harness or Whats the deal w/ the relay your suppsoed to remove i thought I read.
heres some pic's:

This is what I have left: 1 is the Fog light plug,1 is the Main headlight harness plug,and the taped up one is the pop-up headlight motor Harness

everything should be plug and play correct?
Yes,..I have tried swapping the bulbs (have some regular H3's laying around) and did the Ground trick (H3c to H3 mod) and even they won't work.Tried the new bulbs in the highs and lows.

I'm thinking maybe there something in the headlight motor harness I need to Splice or something?

anyone have a chart of what wires (coming out of the OEM US factory Headlight harness) I could just go straight to the bulbs w/o the JDM headlight harness (the plug that looks like a house hold recepticle)?

help please