RB25 S14 Wiring Woes

[FinkenS14]

OK, so today I decided to wire in my wipers for my RB since the snow is starting to come in.
Turn the key on, wipers work...

We wired everything up, and then go to start the car and it sounds really odd. Kinda a rough idle. It was cold out so the car was idling a little higher. Drove it the block to my house from my friends where we did the wiring and let the car sit and idle while I pulled the ecu and dash plug back out. While I was doing this idle was changing the whole time. It'd get real rough, and stumble, and then catch, and then soemtimes idle perfectly normal, it was only doing this when i would move wires around...

I kept trying to mess with wires and then it fianlly just stumbled and died.

I tryed restarting the car but nothing. Just cranks. Fuel pump IS NOT priming.

So far Ive disconnected the wipers completely to rule that out.

So i take out the fuel pump fuse, good. Crank the car without it in a few times. Put it In, crank more, still nothing.

I go through every single wire that I have (from doing to conversion), and every one is good. Take the top off my ECU red light comes on with key on, and no burnt spots or anything that looks peculiar.

Could one of my relays gone bad or soemthing, or soemthing worse?

Any ideas/advice

thanks guys