Ownage at the coffee shop

[Z_Spool]

seriously, if you guys don't relate to this, you're obviously not married/in a committed relationship.
Reasons to do what he did:
a)See if you've still got game enough to get a "banging little 5' 2" Latin hotness." (Married folks need to reassure themselves that they're still desirable from time to time)
b)Make a fool of others who fail.
c)Getting numbers doesn't mean anything but an ego boost as long as they get destroyed (not just tossed where some stranger can harass the person) rather than used.


This goes for both men and women. I've actually caught my fiancee doing it before, and it doesn't bother me because I know, 1. I do it too, and 2. it means nothing since she's choosing to marry me. Just cause you've settled down doesn't mean you can't get some 'exercise' every now and again. As long as the intention is simply to see if you've still got it, there's no harm. If you think otherwise I think lay off the Benny Hinn for a while.

[drift freaq]

Originally Posted by Z_Spool

seriously, if you guys don't relate to this, you're obviously not married/in a committed relationship.
Reasons to do what he did:
a)See if you've still got game enough to get a "banging little 5' 2" Latin hotness." (Married folks need to reassure themselves that they're still desirable from time to time)
b)Make a fool of others who fail.
c)Getting numbers doesn't mean anything but an ego boost as long as they get destroyed (not just tossed where some stranger can harass the person) rather than used.


This goes for both men and women. I've actually caught my fiancee doing it before, and it doesn't bother me because I know, 1. I do it too, and 2. it means nothing since she's choosing to marry me. Just cause you've settled down doesn't mean you can't get some 'exercise' every now and again. As long as the intention is simply to see if you've still got it, there's no harm. If you think otherwise I think lay off the Benny Hinn for a while.

LOL, never had relationships, tell that to the girls that propose to me!. I have been in love and know exactly what's about real love and commitment are about. Do you?.
Ok if you want to have a marriage were the possibility of cheating is closer to to fact more than fiction go right ahead. Dare I say a lack of maturity on both you and your fiance's part? Nothing condones lack of ethics on either side of the fence.
Now you can go right ahead and have a open marriage with swinging but what you and your girl are doing is what eventually leads down the road to suspicion and distrust. Trust me I have seen the kind of shit your engaging in first hand. You will lose.

[usdm180sx]

Oh I get it...sort of like teasing a chained pit bull. You know it's chained but you're still willing to take stupid chances.

I'm married as well but I'm sure glad that I don't feel the need to take such risks. I also make sure women see my wedding band. I feel weird talking to a female if I don't floss it.