woman mind games..any advice?

[S14Speed997]

Originally Posted by old_s13

ive met plenty of girls that have gotten my attention but when it comes to showing that attention to me, or making room in their life for me -- they cannot open up. so, no sense in wasting time with imaginary value -- move on and find something that is real. either you're not good enough for her or shes too stupid to value you, so no sense in fiddle filing, put her on rotation until jealousy kicks in.

rotation is the key my friend...

True..............and i dont think it has anything to do with one being to good for the other.
I came out of a bad relationship when she wanted to date me, and i wasnt ready...so she dated some other guy who ended up hurting her...

And when i was ready to date her, she had just came out of that bad relationship....i just think it was bad timing...I think i am going to just let it go, and meet some other ladies...

dood, thanks for the knowledge, you know your stuff

[Salty_X]

Originally Posted by S14Speed997

I came out of a bad relationship when she wanted to date me, and i wasnt ready...so she dated some other guy who ended up hurting her...

And when i was ready to date her, she had just came out of that bad relationship....i just think it was bad timing...I think i am going to just let it go, and meet some other ladies...

Do you think it's possible that she's acting the way she is on purpose? Seriously. She wanted to date you, but you didn't want to because you had just gotten out of a relationship. Now you want to date her, and she doesn't for the same reason.

It could just be a normal "need some time" thing, but it's not like females haven't tried to pull this shit before... Thinking if they jump back in too quick you'll think they're easy, or maybe she's just trying to test your seriousness. Whatever. It's all pretentious bullshit reasons anyway.
Go out and find some new chicks, I'd bet money that she changes her tune with the quickness.

[Ichi x Go]

haha okay, it's time for a girls point of view on this. Personally, If I were you I would just back off her for a little bit, this same situation has happened to me before too (weird huh? since i'm a girl ..lol) But if you just back away and let them come to you eventually she'll be like: "well,what's going on? He wants nothing to do with me anymore?" (and possibly come crawlin' back) Maybe she likes the fact that she konws that you like her and that she can in some way control you. And at the same rate, when your not off hitting it off with other girls she doesnt' care because she knows she has nothing to worry about. But once she see's that you are she gets jealous because she possibly thinks you have moved on, which she doesnt want you to do,but at the same time she doesnt want to be with you. Moral of this story is: Let her go, talk to her before you do and figure out and ask her what exactly is going on. If it appears to not be worth it, let it go, and let her be jealous.

[S14Speed997]

Originally Posted by Ichi x Go

haha okay, it's time for a girls point of view on this. Personally, If I were you I would just back off her for a little bit, this same situation has happened to me before too (weird huh? since i'm a girl ..lol) But if you just back away and let them come to you eventually she'll be like: "well,what's going on? He wants nothing to do with me anymore?" (and possibly come crawlin' back) Maybe she likes the fact that she konws that you like her and that she can in some way control you. And at the same rate, when your not off hitting it off with other girls she doesnt' care because she knows she has nothing to worry about. But once she see's that you are she gets jealous because she possibly thinks you have moved on, which she doesnt want you to do,but at the same time she doesnt want to be with you. Moral of this story is: Let her go, talk to her before you do and figure out and ask her what exactly is going on. If it appears to not be worth it, let it go, and let her be jealous.

Perrrrfection, it's good to hear it too from a girl...I know the whole "want what you cant have" that girls play.....


WELL i have some thinking to do, she left a message on my cell today while i was at work........She asked me to go with her to her best freinds wedding as her date....

[MakotoS13]

your first mistake is seeking out advice from an internet message board

you should also view this:

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

women have two seperate ladders as the link illustrates. you just might be on that cozy and irritating as hell friends ladder.

wanna know why guys get chicks? confidence. i've had chicks doin things within hours that nobody else could get em to. why? confidence. if you know your game and react accordingly there is truly no limit to what you can achieve. play the game like you can have any one of em you might desire. (telling them that you're subject to holding the chicks you date by high standards doesnt hurt either).

basically you have to make a woman feel like she's special and like you could walk at anytime without giving two farts in the wind about it.

yes, that is how insane they are.

this of course doesn't apply to women who might write you off based entirely on how you look. these chicks are by default stuck up cunts who don't deserve attention anyhow.

THUS, you can have any chick you want but only if you have the balls to take it.

[S14Speed997]

Originally Posted by Salty_X

Do you think it's possible that she's acting the way she is on purpose? Seriously. She wanted to date you, but you didn't want to because you had just gotten out of a relationship. Now you want to date her, and she doesn't for the same reason.

It could just be a normal "need some time" thing, but it's not like females haven't tried to pull this shit before... Thinking if they jump back in too quick you'll think they're easy, or maybe she's just trying to test your seriousness. Whatever. It's all pretentious bullshit reasons anyway.
Go out and find some new chicks, I'd bet money that she changes her tune with the quickness.

I thought that as a possibility too....girls are tricky like that, like with paybacks lol