age difference

[BustedS13]

this 20 year old chick gave me her number (HURR HURR) and i'm 25. what do you guys think about age difference like that or in general?

[ESmorz]

Age differences weird me out.

[dOMEmE]

that age difference still passes in my book..... i say anything over 15 years difference is a no go....as long as as shes over 18 and under 35 ill hit it.... and correct me if im wrong but legally if there 17 and 6 months there concidered legal right? LOL....

[BustedS13]

Originally Posted by dOMEmE

that age difference still passes in my book..... i say anything over 15 years difference is a no go....as long as as shes over 18 and under 35 ill hit it.... and correct me if im wrong but legally if there 17 and 6 months there concidered legal right? LOL....

17 in my state, but i wouldn't go for that. girls stay retarded until they're out of the teens at least. i'm not sure if 20 or even 25 is much better though :/

[udon!]

dude, take the chance.

i felt wierd 1 year ago when a 13 yer old told me she liked me, i was 16.

one year later, HOLY SHITTT MMMAAANNNNGGGGGGG.

accept her digitz. younger women make older men look like badasses. (unless youre over 18)

[BustedS13]

wait you're fucking a 14 year old?

[udon!]

i could be if i really wanted to.

[ESmorz]

Originally Posted by BustedS13

wait you're fucking a 14 year old?

[dOMEmE]

Originally Posted by BustedS13

17 in my state, but i wouldn't go for that. girls stay retarded until they're out of the teens at least. i'm not sure if 20 or even 25 is much better though :/

but it also all depends on what your looking for....one night stand, age shouldnt play a big role...want a relationship then i guess age does matter,you said shes 20 so theres not much you can do to hang out until shes 21 anyways (bars and 21+ clubs)

[BustedS13]

[dOMEmE]

Originally Posted by esmorz

....lol....

[BustedS13]

Originally Posted by dOMEmE

but it also all depends on what your looking for....one night stand, age shouldnt play a big role...want a relationship then i guess age does matter,you said shes 20 so theres not much you can do to hang out until shes 21 anyways (bars and 21+ clubs)

she's a pretty cool chick, i'm really not sure what i want, but i'm down for whatever.
this thread is gay now

[ronmcdon]

Originally Posted by dOMEmE

that age difference still passes in my book..... i say anything over 15 years difference is a no go....as long as as shes over 18 and under 35 ill hit it.... and correct me if im wrong but legally if there 17 and 6 months there concidered legal right? LOL....

Interestingly, these laws vary A LOT by state-to-state,
and even moreso by country-to-country.
I researched this a few years ago (pissing contetest on the the internet w/ some self-righteous folks).
Many states are as low as 16.
Some european countries are as low as 14.

Personally I think 18 is uber-conservative
(or your typical CA self-righteous Liberal)
I've never, ever been an advocate of the idea that somehow 18 should be the cut-off point of age of consent.

Ages of consent in North America - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Europe

To more specifically answer your question though,
(I am guessing you live in CA)
Yes you would get in trouble.
However, it would only be a misdemeanor.

The age of consent is 18, with a misdemeanor if the minor has 3 or fewer years of difference with the major, and potentially a felony if the major is more than 3 years older. It is worth emphasizing that unlike most other states, the close-in-age rule in California (3 years) do not provide an exception nor provide any defense; it merely lowers the crime to a misdemeanor. Under this law, two minors of the exact same age could both be prosecuted. Penalties increase if the minor is under 16 and the major is above 21 or if the minor is more than 3 years younger.

[Mister.E]

my wife is just shy of being 8 years older than me. i really dont see the problem with a 5 year difference. if you are feeling her, i say go for it man

[Marc240]

Age difference shouldnt really be a problem. If shes mature and responsible I wouldnt worry about it.

[nismo 240sx]

my dad is 45 year old and my mom is 40..they are still in love till this date. i say take a chance what do you have to lose..

[Marc240]

Originally Posted by nismo 240sx

my dad is 45 year old and my mom is 40..they are still in love till this date. i say take a chance what do you have to lose..

Hymen....

haha

[airforceone451]

Originally Posted by ronmcdon

Interestingly, these laws vary A LOT by state-to-state,
and even moreso by country-to-country.
I researched this a few years ago (pissing contetest on the the internet w/ some self-righteous folks).
Many states are as low as 16.
Some european countries are as low as 14.

Personally I think 18 is uber-conservative
(or your typical CA self-righteous Liberal)
I've never, ever been an advocate of the idea that somehow 18 should be the cut-off point of age of consent.

Ages of consent in North America - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Ages of consent in Europe - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

To more specifically answer your question though,
(I am guessing you live in CA)
Yes you would get in trouble.
However, it would only be a misdemeanor.

The age of consent is 18, with a misdemeanor if the minor has 3 or fewer years of difference with the major, and potentially a felony if the major is more than 3 years older. It is worth emphasizing that unlike most other states, the close-in-age rule in California (3 years) do not provide an exception nor provide any defense; it merely lowers the crime to a misdemeanor. Under this law, two minors of the exact same age could both be prosecuted. Penalties increase if the minor is under 16 and the major is above 21 or if the minor is more than 3 years younger.

It's 12 in Vatican City

[HyperTek]

when i was younger, i hated seeing girls my age with dudes older than them.. i.e. young 20 year old girls with guys over 30 i hated it.. usually dork ass dudes, but now im gonna be 26 next month and i really dont care, ill go for young 20s.

Some of those girls are already damaged goods tho if thier last bfs where looked at like a daddy figure and bought everything.. those are the ones you dont want cuz they expect that same shit.

[brndck]

i've known a few girls who would only date old dudes (ie, 21 yr old girl with 40+ yr old dude)
always seemed creepy to me, but whutev.
if i was 40 and still nailing 21 yr olds i'd feel pretty badass, but also pretty creepy.
if its someone i wanna actually date, i try to keep it within a +/-5year range. if its just a hookup i'll go with a larger range.

[Touge Noob S13]

Now where is Driftfreaq?

[cleantune]

Do it dude. No regrets. Worst case, just chill wit her once :]

[MisawaJason]

my wifey is about 4.5 years older than me. No problems what so ever

[bizarke]

well my new gf is 20 about to be 21 in a couple of months and im 24 and honestly it might be one of my best relationships i have had. just hang out with her and check out the vibe and younger chicks digs the mature older dudes. lol good luck.

[S14_Kouki]

Five years is not to bad, kinda well it depends. If it was me im 23 so she would be around 18 and idk if I would thats to young for me. The way I see it is that they are still young and have alot of party and what have you so theres alot more drama in younger girls and I hate drama so I would just stay away. But in some cases it works out perfect and you two were meant for eachother. But theres only one way to find out.

[Zachsta]

Originally Posted by udon!

i could be if i really wanted to.

Thats real fuckin' creepy. Be glad you aren't.

[NINJASPY]

she gave you her number. she wants your sausage. let her have it. she just might get addicted to your man juice.
5 years is nothing, I was with a girl 5 years older than me, she was 28 I was 23, glad that ended before she got old

[Devil Man]

the only thing that stinks about that age difference is the fact that you guys cant go out to drink... other then that its not a big gap in age and its totaly fine.

[Brian]

Just think... as you get older, the age gap matters less.

When you are 50, you might have a wife that is 40. No problem.

However if you are 25 and your girlfriend is 15..... problem city.

lol

[ronmcdon]

My current GF is 8 yrs older than me (me in my early 30's, she in her late 30's).
It's actually worked out so much better than my prior relationships.
No drama, easy to predict what she means when she says something, very reasonable.

Likewise, I can now appreciate how some younger girls might somehow prefer dating men a bit older.

Younger girls aren't really my thing.
Girls in their early 20's (in my experience) are usually a lot more hassle to deal with.
It's non-stop drama & attention games.
The fact that A LOT of underage girls now look like they're in their early/mid 20's doesn't help much either.
I've had better general experience someone in their late 20's or a little older.