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Rob's S14 · 12-06-2007, 12:49 PM

This is mainly for girls, but I know some guys will have experienced this too so please respond.

If a girl (not your gf/wife) is calling you (a guy) at 2AM is she:

A. Lookin for some action.

B. Needing to talk to a friend.

The reason I ask is because there's girl that my buddy has been talking to for a while now, and I told him to ask her out or go for drinks or something, but he's not sure if he should. They talk all the time but haven't done anything yet.

diomedes · 12-06-2007, 12:59 PM

IMO, I say she definitely wants to be more than just friends.

azndoc · 12-06-2007, 01:08 PM

This girl that's like a whatever friend called me at 4am once.

She didn't think it was a problem and thought she would just say "hi"

Two things comes into mind when a girl calls me at 2am or 4am.

1.) She wants some action
2.) She got stranded some how on the side of the road and now wants me to pick her up and I'm hoping that it leads to number one above.

TheRonTom31 · 12-06-2007, 01:14 PM

girls call me in the middle of the night all the time. 90% of them want my balls. the other 10% are really upset and need me to comfort them or need my advice or need my help. Generally 2 am calls that don't require help mean she was thinking about you when she was alone....which leads to her wanting your balls

kensreliableb18b · 12-06-2007, 01:35 PM

it depends tho:

do you two talk a lot? if not, then yea, it might mean she was thinking about you and stuff.

if you two talk all the time then its not that out of the ordinary. means nothing.

third, if you're the type of person that helps everyone out (i have a friend like that) then it seriously means nothing; just using you <--lol sucks if its this one.

good luck! hope you get raped by her!

TheRonTom31 · 12-06-2007, 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kensreliableb18b

third, if you're the type of person that helps everyone out (i have a friend like that) then it seriously means nothing; just using you <--lol sucks if its this one.

That's me but usually girls are always like ohh your such a good guy and fall in love with me

Rob's S14 · 12-06-2007, 01:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kensreliableb18b

it depends tho:

do you two talk a lot? if not, then yea, it might mean she was thinking about you and stuff.

if you two talk all the time then its not that out of the ordinary. means nothing.

third, if you're the type of person that helps everyone out (i have a friend like that) then it seriously means nothing; just using you <--lol sucks if its this one.

good luck! hope you get raped by her!

Well, it's not actually for me, but they do talk quite a bit, but it's normally during the day at work. Anyways, thanks for the responses. I think this might motivate him to listen to me and make a move. Keep em comin.

kensreliableb18b · 12-06-2007, 01:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheRonTom31

That's me but usually girls are always like ohh your such a good guy and fall in love with me

yea and then they dump your ass a few days later cuz you're too nice!

j/p witcha

OP, tell him to go for it. fuck it i say, u only live once! its not like either one of them will remember this 10 years from now *knock on wood*

TheRonTom31 · 12-06-2007, 01:54 PM

watch her have a boyfriend and that is why she is so friendly with him...or she is so friendly cause in her mind he has no chance at all i.e. the gay best friend

Rob's S14 · 12-06-2007, 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheRonTom31

watch her have a boyfriend and that is why she is so friendly with him...or she is so friendly cause in her mind he has no chance at all i.e. the gay best friend

Actually, he knows she's single. The gay friend thing would suck though.(cause he's not gay, not because being gay sucks) He's not the type to be mistaken for that though.

TheRonTom31 · 12-06-2007, 02:06 PM

Then I say two thumbs up......... her ****** for him!

xamraci · 12-06-2007, 02:41 PM

the girls I know...are like guys that can keep their mouths shut...

certainly a call for some KIAK...

4thHorse · 12-07-2007, 02:46 AM

If you have to ask then your just friends.

*downshift_sideways* · 12-07-2007, 02:52 AM

To the OP:

That is the whole fun part. Talking on the phone, and getting to know each other...its like butter+popcorn before the movie.

I'm sure in time, they will go out...

then later have sexual encounters...

then later end up hating each other...or so forth.

yusuke1923 · 12-07-2007, 08:57 AM

lol... only an all guy vote will make this "get some action" lol!!!

bigOdom1 · 12-07-2007, 12:10 PM

the question is are they worth answering the phone for at 2 am

ttiwwop

swift_style · 12-07-2007, 01:08 PM

Yep, she's definitely looking for some action.

txrxs · 12-07-2007, 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by downshift_sideways

That is the whole fun part. Talking on the phone, and getting to know each other...its like butter+popcorn before the movie.

false. That is the bullshit that everyone thinks they have to go through in order to get ass.

Rayne · 12-07-2007, 02:06 PM

The answer depends entirely on the conversation.

Rob's S14 · 12-07-2007, 02:28 PM

Just curious, have any girls voted yet? Sorry if I don't know by looking at the sn. It's basically turning out as I expected, but he's still kinda skeptical. Thanks for the votes. +1 for all participants.

EDacIouSX · 12-07-2007, 03:12 PM

I hate talking on the phone. when a girl calls me i just ignore her until she hangs up with me. But then..... i'm super picky so it's not like i enjoy talking to ugly girls who wants a piece of me... haha

anyway, yea that girl is interested in your friend.

steve shadows · 12-07-2007, 03:18 PM

she probably just wants to use you for some stupid shit

mnmax · 12-07-2007, 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigodom1

the question is are they worth answering the phone for at 2 am

ttiwwop

i agree with this completely... usually these girls end up being fuggin psycho... she might be nice now, but just wait til later when she pulls out the bi-polarism card... (too many a one niter gone bad)

adrians_s13 · 12-07-2007, 06:52 PM

yeah.. either shes really interested in you...

or

shes a coke addict and doesnt know wtf time it is

qwikspool · 12-07-2007, 07:08 PM

a chick calling me at 2am it means that she want some action or she is in trouble. it really depends on the situation.

TheRonTom31 · 12-07-2007, 07:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adrians_s13

yeah.. either shes really interested in you...

or

shes a coke addict and doesnt know wtf time it is

Dating a coke addict has its advantages... You know she isn't going to gain weight. and coke addicts are always willing to suck d!ck for a few bucks for more coke.

stinky_180 · 12-07-2007, 11:33 PM

its definately action if the girl is drunk as hell leaving a club....

motorsnail · 12-08-2007, 11:37 PM

She wants to join team RamRod. If he is your budy tell him that pussy doesnt bite so go get some. Or just step in and put her on your back burner so she calls you at 2am.

Rob's S14 · 12-09-2007, 03:59 PM

thanks for all the votes everybody. hopefully this will convince my buddy to do something.

View Poll Results: If a girl (not you're gf/wife) calls you (a guy) at 2AM is she
Lookin to get some action	41	70.69%
Just wanting to talk to a friend	17	29.31%
Voters: 58. You may not vote on this poll

12-06-2007, 12:49 PM	#1
Rob's S14 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Fountain Valley, CA Age: 42 Posts: 1,199 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	Girl's Intention This is mainly for girls, but I know some guys will have experienced this too so please respond. If a girl (not your gf/wife) is calling you (a guy) at 2AM is she: A. Lookin for some action. B. Needing to talk to a friend. The reason I ask is because there's girl that my buddy has been talking to for a while now, and I told him to ask her out or go for drinks or something, but he's not sure if he should. They talk all the time but haven't done anything yet.

12-06-2007, 02:41 PM	#12
xamraci Zilvia Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Alabama Age: 40 Posts: 203 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	the girls I know...are like guys that can keep their mouths shut... certainly a call for some KIAK... __________________

12-07-2007, 02:52 AM	#14
downshift_sideways No Limit Soldier. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Hayward CA, San Gabriel CA Age: 37 Posts: 5,550 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: downshift_sideways Feedback Score: 0 reviews	To the OP: That is the whole fun part. Talking on the phone, and getting to know each other...its like butter+popcorn before the movie. I'm sure in time, they will go out... then later have sexual encounters... then later end up hating each other...or so forth. __________________ allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

12-07-2007, 12:10 PM	#16
bigOdom1 Nissanaholic! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Auburn/Birmingham AL Age: 40 Posts: 1,817 Trader Rating: (4) Rides Gallery: bigOdom1 Feedback Score: 4 reviews	the question is are they worth answering the phone for at 2 am ttiwwop __________________ my car domain that good review thread

12-06-2007, 12:59 PM	#2
diomedes Zilvia Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Norcal Posts: 720 Trader Rating: (8) Feedback Score: 8 reviews	IMO, I say she definitely wants to be more than just friends.

12-06-2007, 01:08 PM	#3
azndoc Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Los Angeles Age: 42 Posts: 9,487 Trader Rating: (47) Rides Gallery: azndoc Feedback Score: 47 reviews	This girl that's like a whatever friend called me at 4am once. She didn't think it was a problem and thought she would just say "hi" Two things comes into mind when a girl calls me at 2am or 4am. 1.) She wants some action 2.) She got stranded some how on the side of the road and now wants me to pick her up and I'm hoping that it leads to number one above.

12-06-2007, 01:14 PM	#4
TheRonTom31 Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Saratoga, NY Age: 41 Posts: 775 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	girls call me in the middle of the night all the time. 90% of them want my balls. the other 10% are really upset and need me to comfort them or need my advice or need my help. Generally 2 am calls that don't require help mean she was thinking about you when she was alone....which leads to her wanting your balls

12-06-2007, 01:35 PM	#5
kensreliableb18b Zilvia Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: so cal - 626, 909, 562 and 949. 818 if i feel like running away Posts: 945 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	it depends tho: do you two talk a lot? if not, then yea, it might mean she was thinking about you and stuff. if you two talk all the time then its not that out of the ordinary. means nothing. third, if you're the type of person that helps everyone out (i have a friend like that) then it seriously means nothing; just using you <--lol sucks if its this one. good luck! hope you get raped by her!

12-06-2007, 01:54 PM	#9
TheRonTom31 Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Saratoga, NY Age: 41 Posts: 775 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	watch her have a boyfriend and that is why she is so friendly with him...or she is so friendly cause in her mind he has no chance at all i.e. the gay best friend

12-06-2007, 02:06 PM	#11
TheRonTom31 Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Saratoga, NY Age: 41 Posts: 775 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Then I say two thumbs up......... her ****** for him!

12-07-2007, 02:46 AM	#13
4thHorse Zilvia Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: San Jose, CA Posts: 295 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	If you have to ask then your just friends.

12-07-2007, 08:57 AM	#15
yusuke1923 Nissanaholic! Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: 818 to da 626 v(^_^)v Posts: 1,661 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	lol... only an all guy vote will make this "get some action" lol!!!

12-07-2007, 01:08 PM	#17
swift_style Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: CA Posts: 445 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Yep, she's definitely looking for some action.

12-07-2007, 02:06 PM	#19
Rayne Zilvia Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Earth Posts: 676 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: Rayne Feedback Score: 0 reviews	The answer depends entirely on the conversation. __________________ Do need the Factory Service Manual? Click here.

12-07-2007, 02:28 PM	#20
Rob's S14 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Fountain Valley, CA Age: 42 Posts: 1,199 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	Just curious, have any girls voted yet? Sorry if I don't know by looking at the sn. It's basically turning out as I expected, but he's still kinda skeptical. Thanks for the votes. +1 for all participants.

12-07-2007, 03:12 PM	#21
EDacIouSX Post Whore! Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Los Angeles Age: 38 Posts: 4,565 Trader Rating: (53) Rides Gallery: EDacIouSX Feedback Score: 53 reviews	I hate talking on the phone. when a girl calls me i just ignore her until she hangs up with me. But then..... i'm super picky so it's not like i enjoy talking to ugly girls who wants a piece of me... haha anyway, yea that girl is interested in your friend.

12-07-2007, 03:18 PM	#22
steve shadows Post Whore! Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: LA and OC Posts: 8,202 Trader Rating: (5) Feedback Score: 5 reviews	she probably just wants to use you for some stupid shit __________________ Like Me on FaceBook !

12-07-2007, 06:52 PM	#24
adrians_s13 Post Whore! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: long beach, CA ^_^ Age: 39 Posts: 2,878 Trader Rating: (29) Feedback Score: 29 reviews	yeah.. either shes really interested in you... or shes a coke addict and doesnt know wtf time it is __________________ @adrianfromthecastle

12-07-2007, 07:08 PM	#25
qwikspool Nissanaholic! Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Murrieta, CA Posts: 1,912 Trader Rating: (6) Feedback Score: 6 reviews	a chick calling me at 2am it means that she want some action or she is in trouble. it really depends on the situation.

12-07-2007, 11:33 PM	#27
stinky_180 Nissanaholic! Join Date: May 2004 Location: Pale Blue Dot Age: 39 Posts: 2,064 Trader Rating: (26) Feedback Score: 26 reviews	its definately action if the girl is drunk as hell leaving a club.... __________________ SoCal RallyX Coverage and MTB Ride Reports WheelsDirty

12-08-2007, 11:37 PM	#28
motorsnail Zilvia Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Oklahoma Age: 36 Posts: 625 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	She wants to join team RamRod. If he is your budy tell him that pussy doesnt bite so go get some. Or just step in and put her on your back burner so she calls you at 2am.

12-09-2007, 03:59 PM	#29
Rob's S14 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Fountain Valley, CA Age: 42 Posts: 1,199 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	thanks for all the votes everybody. hopefully this will convince my buddy to do something.