Beat your children, its a good thing

Although most people think I am old, and that I am a parent. I am not.

Now, near the office here at work, there is a liquor store. A great place for a quick snack, bag of chips, or a drink. Now that I've been right next door to a liquor store, I am starting to gain an understanding as to what types of people come here. And, how I hate some of these people.

- Smokes & Liquor, yes.. I know you people cant live without your alcohol, or without your fucking cigarettes. These patrons dont catch me by surprise, although I will admit that I do find it funny just how many people are FUCKING ADDICTED. You see people leaving with their "brown bag special," which is an alcoholic beverage of choice, of course. And you see people run in for their "morning pack of cigarettes" as they are barely able to make the request, with their worn vocals which sound much like a rusty gate being closed or opened. "A pack of marlbro and some lighters, thaaanks" .. fuck. "Dont you look in the mirror," I ask myself? Face looking like a dry old catchers mitt (-seinfeld)

- Lotto FREAKS. I see the weirdest people ON THE FUCKING PLANET come in for their lotto TUESDAY or LOTTO FRIDAY or whatever_the_fuck special day they're conning you idiots into buying tickets. I cannot fucking BELIEVE how many people are quick to give their hard-earned money away. I see 20, 40, 100 dollar lotto purchases. What the FUCK is wrong with you people? Make me wait in line for what, so that you can lose? I could've told that to you right then and there, you fucking SUCK at life and you're a fucking LOSER. GO HOME. Give your children that money, they can use it on something called education, something you obviously are not equipped with. AND, the type of people buying lotto tickets is even more amazing than their stupidity. They're always either old, dying, dead, or just disabled and barely operating. God I see some weird fucks buying lotto tickets.

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Now that my rant is done, lets start with the topic at hand. Funny how I always make my point at the END of my posts, but whatever. The beginning is my introduction which explains my twisted mindset.

So as I am stepping away from my office (nextdoor), I hear some honking. Not a short honk, like someone is holding the horn for whatever reason. Sometimes this happens when someone not-so-skilled is installing their "club" anti-theft device. No, not this time. I see a Ford Focus with its weak horn blaring "beeeeeeeeeeee beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep" and some fat kid in the passenger seat. I already knew what was happening. Little fatty is honking the horn to piss off mom, who left the car running because shes "only gonna be a minute." And, the kids are laughing away while they annoy mom. How funny, its 9PM.. lets pissoff all the neighbors, the liquor store owner (who happens to be Korean), mom, me, and everyone else.. because its funny. I got something funny for you, how bout I come beat your fuckin fat face in, bitch. Thats funny.

Anyway, I walk in, grab my Freshly Brewed Lipton Unsweetened Ice Tea, and get in line behind... Mom. Mom has a tattoo on her arm below her elbow, and is looking for change to pay for her bullshit cigarettes while fat fuck, is still blaring the horn. She tells the owner, again, who is korean... "You should tell them to stop because they're not gonna listen to me!"


WHAT

THE

FUCK

Seriously, what the FUCK is wrong with society? Bitch cant raise her kids so she asks a stranger for help? Anyway, the owner yells "SHUTTUP!$@?@!?$%@!?" with his nice Korean accent, which stopped them for like.. 5 seconds. But then they started again as mom walked upto the car.

Mom was searching through her purse for CHANGE to pay for her cigarettes. Oh for chrissake.. she doesnt even have enough real money, she has to pay with pennies and nickles for her addiction. She leaves her car running with the children in it, real safe.

My beef is this. Because of modern day society, EVERYONE is safe. Auto transmissions dont accidentally go into drive because of a safety feature! Why? Because people died when cars accidentally were put into gear. Oh? GOOD! Let people die. Let these people die. Let little fattie roll off a cliff because she was laughing, honking, and her fat arm accidentally shifted into "D," thats what I say.

Too many people are safey nowadays, and that shit is annoying. There's too many people, too many idiots at that, and I'm tired of parents who cant parent. Modern day society (american society, that is).. looks down upon parents that beat their children. FUCK THAT, if those were my kids.. I'de go outside, pull the kid out of the car, and give her a public beating that she and everyone else would remember. We'll see how she acts up when the back of my hand slaps across her face and leaves a print.

People - please, take my advice. Beat your fucking children. Be proud. Raise them right, and lets move FORWARD... not backwards.

Bitches....

[DRavenS13]

[sigh..] Where to begin.

Ok, I agree with you on every single point of your rant. I agree that parents have become absolutely retarded when it comes to their kids. I have 2 children of my own, and when they look at other children misbehave, they look in absolute horror because they think those kids are gonna get what I would give them for that kind of behavior.

There's just one word in your lil rant that I hate. BEAT. I do not condone BEATING your children. It's one thing to spank them, hit them with a belt, but BEATING your child means you lose control of your anger and you do them serious damage. Any kind of corporal punishment should not leave bruises, or welts, or any kind of mark- except the psychological one that tells them not to repeat the behavior that caused them the punishment. Like you said, you don't have kids, so I don't know if you would know the difference.

In the case of the scenario you described, IF (and I really mean IF) my kids had the balls to do some shit like that, I would do what you said, and drag them out of the car and smack them silly in front of everyone. It hurts and it's embarrassing- enough to make the point. But I wouldn't beat him/her like I would an adult.

K, that's all.

The second story, is much, much shorter. A couple of weeks ago we had a heatwave here in socal, right before it started raining. I'm here in the office, working. Office window blinds are open, ah nice.. sunshine coming into the office, great.

The window shows the parking lot, my car, my co-workers' cars, the neighbor's house.. I see birds flying around, an occasional squirrel running around.

This time.....

hehehe I shit you not....

haha man, I am laughing as I'm writing this...


THIS TIME, I take a look out my fucking window...................
hahahahaha





and I SEE A FUCKING woman................ taking a PISS................ behind my wife's Mazda Miata.


what


the


FUCkl?$@!?$!@?$!@?$!@


She had JUST pulled up her "workout clothes" so I didnt see any poonanny or any peeing-action, for any of you weird fetishists, so fuckoff. But I saw enough, because:

1) She wasnt good looking
2) She was like 40 or 50
3) She looked crazy, you know..



i mean,,...... YOU KNOW how crazy people look. They always LOOK crazy, like something is wrong with them.



Anyway it was hot, I went outside and saw she was gone. And within 15 minutes the pee had evaporated, how nice - the beauty of nature. Anyway, about 15 MORE minutes pass and I see that bitch again, and she starts walking BACK to where my Miata is.. and she's talking on her cell phone....??

WHAT? I dont even have a cell phone, by choice of course, because I dont believe in having these electronic ball-and-chains. But this crazy bitch has a cell phone, and yet she's riding a bike?? Anyway, I raise my index finger and make the "no-no" gesture and, she leaves on her bike. The End.


Fucking WEIRD place we live in. And still, this doesnt even hold a candle near ANY of the shit I've seen in LA. Burbank is a much more calm, and quiet place to live.

Minus the crazy women who like to pee in the back of our office.

Originally Posted by DRavenS13

There's just one word in your lil rant that I hate. BEAT. I do not condone BEATING your children.

Dee Raven Ess Thirteen

I very much like the word BEAT, it instills fear into people. Fear is good, because if its one thing I learned from my parents - is to fucking FEAR them when I do something out-of-line. There is no "time out" in a Greek family. Anyone with traditional parents understands, "time out" is an American thing. Parents from other countries dont play that Time Out shit.

Anyway, we're on the same page.. its just a form of expression. You dont "beat" with a closed fist or anything like that, and you dont leave bruises.. although if I recall correctly.. I did have a bruised ass from my mom when I was a kid, she spanked me so hard that her hand hurt. Hmmmmmmmmmmm.. maybe thats why I have that weird fetis...nevermind. haha JK. really.... i joke i joke.

But yeah, it should all be done within limits. However, I also recall my dad picking me up by my NECK once from doing some stupid shit. But trust me, I never EVER acted out of line after that incident.... so I dont consider that too much either.

[DRavenS13]

Eye-Ecks-Ef-Ecks-Eye


I don't do that time-out shit either. My kids (mostly my son) get ears pulled, smacks in the back of the head, smacks on the butt, and I've only used the belt maybe 5 times between them. I'm a big believer in kickin ur kids' ass when they need it, because God knows I've had to. But I'll tell you one thing- my kids are some of the most well-behaved kids you'll ever see these days.

On a separate note, that lady peeing- pure comedy. Too bad you didn't have a phone. I would have taken a picture of her, then went down there to show it to her. I would have told her that I was gonna call the cops to report indecent exposure unless she gave me money. Yay for extortion.

[IIIXziuR]

You post the best shit man. That women pissing story was nuts. I see shit like that alot for some reason now. Alot of crazy people are in the area I work.

[ramblux]

Originally Posted by DRavenS13

Eye-Ecks-Ef-Ecks-Eye

My kids (mostly my son) get ears pulled, smacks in the back of the head, smacks on the butt, and I've only used the belt maybe 5 times between them...............

my kids are some of the most well-behaved kids you'll ever see these days.

I'm not sure I understand. Kids learn by example, so what values are you teaching them? I don't know you, so don't take that personally -- I'm just curious.

The only thing I learned from my parents hitting me with a belt is 1) to hate my parents, and 2) to not hit my kids with a belt.

[xblack240x]

ixfxi

I agree with your first story, I see TOO much of BS like that... Parents need to be what they are called, PARENTS, and PARENT their damn child...
The second story about the lady is hilarious, and to Dravens13's idea for extortion, even more funny
Good post, interesting read, and I agree with so much.

ramblux

It's true kids learn by example but maybe for you (since I don't know you either) you learned to 1) hate your parents and 2) never hit your kid with a belt from your parents hitting you with a belt...
I grew up in a single parent home, and as if that wasn't enough stress, I did really stupid things (got caught stealing shit, graffiti, other stupid things)... But every time I did something bad (mind you this all happened in 1 year cause I was trying to be the cool kid) my mom would BEAT me as ixfxi would put it, and after that year, I was a straight A, perfect attendance student... I'll admit at the time that she was disciplining me I would feel like I hate her, but now that I'm older I know why she did it, and I learned how to be a parent from her... But thats just me... Basically, contradicting what you said, I learned that when I do decide to have children, I have to discipline them, because as a child I stepped out of line, and after being beat, I learned not to do it... Thats my two cents...

Again +1 for ixfxi, great post

[luisgonz]

Then of my kid learns anything from me then he /she will be one fucken drunk up the butt hole satan. LOL
But really Im thinking the same thing, because my brother is not putting his foot down on his kid. Very sad.

Originally Posted by xblack240x

ixfxi

I agree with your first story, I see TOO much of BS like that... Parents need to be what they are called, PARENTS, and PARENT their damn child...
The second story about the lady is hilarious, and to Dravens13's idea for extortion, even more funny
Good post, interesting read, and I agree with so much.

ramblux

It's true kids learn by example but maybe for you (since I don't know you either) you learned to 1) hate your parents and 2) never hit your kid with a belt from your parents hitting you with a belt...
I grew up in a single parent home, and as if that wasn't enough stress, I did really stupid things (got caught stealing shit, graffiti, other stupid things)... But every time I did something bad (mind you this all happened in 1 year cause I was trying to be the cool kid) my mom would BEAT me as ixfxi would put it, and after that year, I was a straight A, perfect attendance student... I'll admit at the time that she was disciplining me I would feel like I hate her, but now that I'm older I know why she did it, and I learned how to be a parent from her... But thats just me... Basically, contradicting what you said, I learned that when I do decide to have children, I have to discipline them, because as a child I stepped out of line, and after being beat, I learned not to do it... Thats my two cents...

Again +1 for ixfxi, great post

dee raven, most people probably wouldnt ask out of politeness, but i am not a polite person.. so i have to ask. do you alone, do the beating? or is there a dad who also assists in the beating? i know there are single parents out there, and so i ask because i'm curious. i know single mommas have to play both roles (mom and dad) and being the bad guy is typically the dominant, male role.. atleast it was in my house - but not true for all houses. my friend's father was a puss and his mom was always the one throwing down with him.

reason i ask is because my momma never used the belt with me. the belt is like a sword, an excaliber if you will. Only Pops is capable of weilding that weapon of choice. Mom, she was more civilized. Mom used the kitchen slipper. Funny, my mom is greek.. but gaddamn sometimes she acted asian, throwing slippers like ninja-stars when she couldnt catch me! Gaddamn I think back to when I was a kid and laugh now.

about the camera PHONE, that i do not have. BUT, i have a nice digital camera here at work, by my side. I guess I could have taken a picture of that pee-er, but then... I'de have to worry about my wife, thinking i am a fetishist. she's already pissed off at me for being a man, who likes women, and who enjoys sex and porno. well, probably because until most fucking men, i am open about it.. and dont HIDE the fact that, like all men - i like tits, ass, sex, porno, etc. some guys are pathetic, telling their girlfriend or wife "no honey, i dont masturbate" yeah right, every man does.

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rambluxxx> The only thing I learned from my parents hitting me with a belt is 1) to hate my parents, and 2) to not hit my kids with a belt.

if you were abused, thats one thing. but if your parent(s) had a reason, then that reason should be obvious - you fucked up. your parents are here to keep you in check and keep you in line. if they beat you, its because they care for you and they want the best for you. maybe you dont understand harsh behaviour, but its what separates the weak from the strong, and the smart from the stupid. its a fact, beating reality into your children makes them street smart.

disagree? readon: http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat

MADDOX IS ALWAYS RIGHT, PERIOD.

Originally Posted by luisgonz

Then of my kid learns anything from me then he /she will be one fucken drunk up the butt hole satan. LOL
But really Im thinking the same thing, because my brother is not putting his foot down on his kid. Very sad.

Luis.

your spelling alone makes me want to BEAT you.

hows that sound? haha

edit: luis, i love you. tranquilo vato.

[luisgonz]

Dude I drink like every nihgt/night.LOL Sorry man I type so fast that I dont even go back and check.Haha I feel you on your post.dawg.LOL

[DRavenS13]

ramblux-

My kids neither hate me, or are scared of me. Reason being is because they know exactly WHY I'm doing it, and I give them fair warning. What example am I giving them? It's one of cause and effect, that kids don't know about these days. If they do something stupid, they're gonna get smacked. It teaches them consequences. Like I said, I don't do that time out shit- what does that teach them later on? If you do something dumb, someone's gonna put you in the corner for a while?

My grandmother raised me with an iron fist. She used to pinch the shit out of me in church, and that shit HURT like a MF. It taught me how to sit still and listen to everything I was missing. She used to hit me with a wooden spoon that she would smack across my hands. It taught me to leave shit alone that wasn't mine. When I got to high school, and they called her for some dumb shit I did, she showed up- BELT IN HAND- and beat me raw in front of the school principal and all my friends. She didn't give a FUCK.

I don't hate her for any of that. I loved my grandmother with every inch of me, and God rest her soul, I still do. She taught me that there are consequences to every action, and they do hurt- sometimes more than any belt or spoon could ever cause.

[DRavenS13]

ixfxi- Yes, I do the majority of the dirty work. My daughter bats her eyes at her dad, and that's all it takes for him. My son's father is a Pussified Western Male.

I would guess that with a girl, it's harder for a dad to do the dirty work.

[ramblux]

Yeah, but I also learned that if I don't like what someone is doing, I can hit them to make the problem go away. I'm of the belief that the behavior can/should be corrected before the "hitting" stage.

As an example, my wife is an infant/toddler teacher and works hard to create a loving example with her kids. Unfortunately, she spends more time with them than their parents do. Not a single one of them is problematic, but every single one of them now knows sign language (3 month old babies can communicate with sign language pretty effectively) and can read before the age of three years, and they've all learned respect through example. It's because the program that my wife leads gives the kids more credit than most people are willing to give children. These kids aren't exceptional, they were just raised differently.

You wouldn't hit an adult, so why hit a child?


And I never said I was scared of my parents. In fact, I beat my dad down on my 18th birthday and never saw him again after that. I never did anything bad enough to warrant getting hit with a belt, and I'd guess that 99% of kids don't do anything to justify getting hit either. I guess what I'm asking is, are your kids' actions appropriate to the punishment?

One more point regarding your grandmother. If you still did all that stuff throughout your childhood and through high school, how exactly is it that you learned?

"I would guess that with a girl, it's harder for a dad to do the dirty work."

oooooooooooooh that makes more sense, i forgot you have a daughter and a son, right? with daughter, its different... the mom needs/should do the enforcing.

my wife gets angry when i tell her that that my side of the family doesnt make females, because all of the guys on my side of the fam that have kids.. ALL HAVE SONS.. almost all. a few girls slipped into the cracks here and there, but honestly.. we're almost ALL MEN! fuck yeah, thats what you get when you have dominant offspring! hahaha but anyway, she gets mad when i tell her that only pussified fathers create daughters. :-) thats why they are "daddys little girl" right? because daddy's typically baby their daughters................... forever.


ramblux> You wouldn't hit an adult, so why hit a child?

no. i have no problem beating your ass if you ever stepped out of line.......... and were part of my family, of course.

i mean come on man, its all to a certain degree. you dont need to spank a any child under 2-3 years old, they're too young to understand at that age. but when they are crazy fuckers, like my 4 year old nephew or cousins, they require a periodic beatdown to remind them whos boss.

you simply cannot get away with certain behaviour. if you steal, write graffitti, or just do plain stupid shit that is WRONG.. and wrong in a big way, then you're gonna PAY... IN A BIG WAY.

there needs to be enforcement on society, and it starts in the household. theres NO room for tenderness unless you want your children to play mind-games on you.

[luisgonz]

Oh man you really dont know me. I hope you get to know me and what I have been through. But non the less. Dude yousound like a cool guy. So maybe I wont beat you like my child. LOL. But man I dont think a child should be beateb blue close to purple over something stupid. But is she/he give someone a child then Im running my foot up there ass. LOL

Originally Posted by ixfxi

Luis.

your spelling alone makes me want to BEAT you.

hows that sound? haha

edit: luis, i love you. tranquilo vato.

[DRavenS13]

I'm not saying I hit them EVERY TIME they do something bad. I don't punish them when they make a mistake. They'll get verbal warnings, and if they're still acting like assholes, then they get an ear pulled.

All that stuff is well and good about your wife, but those are not her kids. She's a teacher, and she's doing exactly what she's supposed to do for those kids. At the end of the day, those kids go home and she doesn't have to deal with them anymore. It's good that she cares enough to show those kids good things, but any kind of real life shit, they gotta learn from the parents. All that psycho-babble shit is good, but for parents that don't know how to control their anger and take it out on their kids.

Prime example- my mother tries to use all that psycho-babble shit on my kids. Time-out, blah blah. You know what they do? They'll sit there, and then they'll go back to the bad shit they were doing. Why? Because it's not a real punishment. All you're doing is letting them rest and plot the next act of assery. Now, if I see they're doing some shit, and I get up- All I need to do is get up and look at them. That shit stops right there. And they don't do it again. Because they know. They don't want to deal with me.

About me and my grandmother- when you have a puppy, and you're teaching it to be house-broken, how many times do you have to go over and over with the puppy until he gets the hint? Do you send the puppy on a time-out? Hell no, because he doesn't know what the fuck that is. He's gonna continue to shit all over the house. Or eat your shoes. Or scratch the door and whine. It takes stages and a lot of patience and discipline to teach them everything they need to know to get through the rest of their life.

It's takes A LOT of patience to raise kids. That's why I tell everyone I know not to have them. There are times when I want to strangle them for the shit they do or say. Do I do it? No, because I know better than that. Sometimes, they do need that kick in the ass (not literally) to get them to see that what they're doing is wrong. Sometimes talk isn't gonna do it- I think society and the way it is now is enough proof of that.

That's why I endorse ixfxi for President. LOL, just kidding, not really. I'd be the first in line to assassinate him.

[luisgonz]

I will be the next inline if you miss, LOL
This guy has a close thought next to minez.Yes you fucken whores MINEZ>

Originally Posted by DRavenS13

I'm not saying I hit them EVERY TIME they do something bad. I don't punish them when they make a mistake. They'll get verbal warnings, and if they're still acting like assholes, then they get an ear pulled.

All that stuff is well and good about your wife, but those are not her kids. She's a teacher, and she's doing exactly what she's supposed to do for those kids. At the end of the day, those kids go home and she doesn't have to deal with them anymore. It's good that she cares enough to show those kids good things, but any kind of real life shit, they gotta learn from the parents. All that psycho-babble shit is good, but for parents that don't know how to control their anger and take it out on their kids.

Prime example- my mother tries to use all that psycho-babble shit on my kids. Time-out, blah blah. You know what they do? They'll sit there, and then they'll go back to the bad shit they were doing. Why? Because it's not a real punishment. All you're doing is letting them rest and plot the next act of assery. Now, if I see they're doing some shit, and I get up- All I need to do is get up and look at them. That shit stops right there. And they don't do it again. Because they know. They don't want to deal with me.

About me and my grandmother- when you have a puppy, and you're teaching it to be house-broken, how many times do you have to go over and over with the puppy until he gets the hint? Do you send the puppy on a time-out? Hell no, because he doesn't know what the fuck that is. He's gonna continue to shit all over the house. Or eat your shoes. Or scratch the door and whine. It takes stages and a lot of patience and discipline to teach them everything they need to know to get through the rest of their life.

It's takes A LOT of patience to raise kids. That's why I tell everyone I know not to have them. There are times when I want to strangle them for the shit they do or say. Do I do it? No, because I know better than that. Sometimes, they do need that kick in the ass (not literally) to get them to see that what they're doing is wrong. Sometimes talk isn't gonna do it- I think society and the way it is now is enough proof of that.

That's why I endorse ixfxi for President. LOL, just kidding, not really. I'd be the first in line to assassinate him.

[Farzam]

I fucking hate running out of cigarettes, especially at a party. I hate bumming cigarettes...I feel like a fucking idiot, and noone smokes good cigarettes.

I used to work at a pharmacy...I had people spend upwards of $600 at once buying lottery tickets. This guy literally kept coming in every 10-15 minutes getting $60 worth of $5 scratchoffs...after 45 minutes I got one of those addiction pamphlets and laid it out across the counter (lolz). He then came every half hour or so, and he'd hover around the front I guess to see if I was gonna get off work any time soon cause he was probably embarassed...well at least I sorta saved him some money. I won $110 once though, it was cool...I bought some shoes and took a girl out to dinner.

As a teenager I get to meet a lot of fucked up kids. You know what ALL of them have in common? Shitty parents or no parents. Be a good parent or just throw your kid away. Spank your kids, make your kids do chores, make them be respectful, etc. while they're young so they don't turn into the drug addicts and wastes of lives I see at school (if they haven't dropped out yet).

[luisgonz]

I came from a great childhood, I went to great schools in Los Angeles. I even went to Palisades High school Its the fucken kids and there fucken parents. Idont even know what to do if I have a kid.

Originally Posted by Farzam

I fucking hate running out of cigarettes, especially at a party. I hate bumming cigarettes...I feel like a fucking idiot, and noone smokes good cigarettes.

I used to work at a pharmacy...I had people spend upwards of $600 at once buying lottery tickets. This guy literally kept coming in every 10-15 minutes getting $60 worth of $5 scratchoffs...after 45 minutes I got one of those addiction pamphlets and laid it out across the counter (lolz). He then came every half hour or so, and he'd hover around the front I guess to see if I was gonna get off work any time soon cause he was probably embarassed...well at least I sorta saved him some money. I won $110 once though, it was cool...I bought some shoes and took a girl out to dinner.

As a teenager I get to meet a lot of fucked up kids. You know what ALL of them have in common? Shitty parents or no parents. Be a good parent or just throw your kid away. Spank your kids, make your kids do chores, make them be respectful, etc. while they're young so they don't turn into the drug addicts and wastes of lives I see at school (if they haven't dropped out yet).

[DRavenS13]

That's why I say don't have kids. The world is populated enough.

[luisgonz]

Do you have a girlfriend Because I can but on a dress.LOL

Originally Posted by DRavenS13

That's why I say don't have kids. The world is populated enough.

[azndoc]

The way I grew up if I did something wrong I knew I'd get a beating. Not a beating just because, but because I fucked up in some way.

Oh I deserved the beatings. I was a rascal. It made me a better and harder person and I appreciated that.

One time my mom had me and my brother kneel down on our knees and hold our hands out like usual. She then took the usual wooden cooking spoon and proceeded to demolish our palms. Then after about 5 minutes into it the stick broke as she was hitting my brother's palms. She got mad and left. We both kneeled there smiling at each other because we knew that we couldn't get hit with the spoon anymore. We were so damn happy that the pain in our palms didn't even matter anymore. We had won against the damn wooden spoon.

But the next day she had a brand new one ready for us.

She always said that it hurt her more than it hurt us. lolz

luis> Oh man you really dont know me. I hope you get to know me and what I have been through. But non the less. Dude yousound like a cool guy. So maybe I wont beat you like my child. LOL. But man I dont think a child should be beateb blue close to purple over something stupid. But is she/he give someone a child then Im running my foot up there ass.

luis, you do realize you're drunk, right? i mean, when you're drunk.. i know its funny to type online, and you're probably laughing and having a good time - but we have NO FUCKING CLUE what you're trying to say. just thought you'de like to know......

ENGLISH mothafucka, do you speak it? haha


dee raven> That's why I endorse ixfxi for President. LOL, just kidding, not really. I'd be the first in line to assassinate him.

once enemies, now friends. you bring a tear to my eye, dear. actually though, i think my wife has you all beat - she'll definately be the first person to kill me... trust me. TRUST ME.


luis> minez.Yes you fucken whores MINEZ........... I went to great schools in Los Angeles. I even went to Palisades High school Its the fucken kids and there fucken parents.

Mexican? This is like a George Lopez skit! "I said MINEZ!"

Funny, i started laughing when you said "great school + los angeles" then i read the magic word........ PALI.

fool, pali isnt LA.. that shit is "santa monica" its a great school, compared to the shithole I went to... fuckin Fairfax high. I mean, it gets more gheto than that of course.. the further east you go.. but hey, fairfax, hollywood, hamilton.. they're all pretty shitty schools.

fuck man, i never went to ONE PUBLIC school here in LA that had doors on their bathroom stalls.. fucking REDICULOUS. how do you take a shit when 1, the stall has shit smeared all over it, and 2, theres no fucking door?! only the retarded kids would shit, you know.. the ones that wore helmets ALL THE TIME and rode the short school bus.

but anyway, the thing that i find ironic about people that are against putting the smack down on their kids, is that they're usually very civilized, rather well off.. and typically: white. again, not white like european, because my wife (who is czech) and me (who is greek) both got our share from our parents when growing up. But i'm talking plain, white, americans... got too much money for their own good, because they have nannies raising the kids for them. anyway, the irony is that most nannies, opairs, or sitters that look after the kids.............. are immigrants. They usually get more respect from the kids than the parents get!

what a fuckin kick in the balls, how ironic is that!


farzam the perrrr_sian> As a teenager I get to meet a lot of fucked up kids. You know what ALL of them have in common? Shitty parents or no parents. Be a good parent or just throw your kid away. Spank your kids, make your kids do chores, make them be respectful, etc. while they're young so they don't turn into the drug addicts and wastes of lives I see at school

you know, most of my friends that went to the shittier schools (like me @ fairfax), turned up better than the ones who went to beverly high (beverly hills high, that is). i mean, a lot of students that went to beverly had money to buy drugs.

shit, most of my friends at fairfax..well... dont get me wrong, we werent broke - we had money. but most of my friends had money from SELLING drugs to punk bitches that went to beverly. :-) again, funny.. the irony!

[luisgonz]

I love you man. I so fucken drunk Class of 2002m Yeah Fuck yeah. LOL
Im drunk lol
Bitch its minez Like I will blow MInez LOL

[luisgonz]

Hey you fool, Palisades Is in Pali, You fucken terd. Shit man Atleast Im drunk Not stupid LIke you. LOL. Look at the fucken city's in Los Angeles. Shit man And I wanted you fuck.LOL(Im not gay Like you.LOL)

[Tops*]

Originally Posted by xblack240x

It's true kids learn by example but maybe for you (since I don't know you either) you learned to 1) hate your parents and 2) never hit your kid with a belt from your parents hitting you with a belt...
I grew up in a single parent home, and as if that wasn't enough stress, I did really stupid things (got caught stealing shit, graffiti, other stupid things)... But every time I did something bad (mind you this all happened in 1 year cause I was trying to be the cool kid) my mom would BEAT me as ixfxi would put it, and after that year, I was a straight A, perfect attendance student... I'll admit at the time that she was disciplining me I would feel like I hate her, but now that I'm older I know why she did it, and I learned how to be a parent from her... But thats just me... Basically, contradicting what you said, I learned that when I do decide to have children, I have to discipline them, because as a child I stepped out of line, and after being beat, I learned not to do it... Thats my two cents...

I'm 19, don't have any kids, but my life's straight. I have a girlfriend who I feel is the one and only, who I've talked to just about every aspect of life.

To what xblack240x said: I don't think it was your mom that set you straight. Your mom only made the situation worse by 'beating' you. It was you realizing of your own wrong-doings that set you straight. Whether you learned from your mom's harsh beatings or your actions doesn't matter.
It's your choice to LEARN from your mistakes. It's your mom's duty as a parent to TEACH you of what's right and what's wrong (parenting). Fortunately, you learned and are walking the right path.

Parenting comes in many forms as I'm sure everyone's already aware of. It takes more for a young child to learn than an adult because of human mind development. That's why punishments for an adult are much harsher than punishments for a young child. What's the American time-out for? What's jail time or prison time for? Time hopefully spent to learn.

It's the parents' duty to make the mistakes made by their children significant so there is something to learn from. There are much more efficient methods of punishment than beating. To each parent their own.

My $0.02.

[DRavenS13]

luisgonz- i'm a girl, you idiot.

ixfxi- i never considered you an enemy, just an asshole. you've been upgraded to an asshole I can tolerate.

I went to Lynwood High school- that shit is more ghetto than anything in Hollywood or Fairfax could ever offer. When people get shot in the front on the first day of school, or there's race wars during school, or there's people having sex on the stairwells and no one is fazed by that, or there's kids selling drugs to the security guards- yea, that's pretty ghetto.

[luisgonz]

If you are Idiot Then I'm your guy. LOL
Were have you been in my life Maybe We should hang aout make me my drinks. You seem like a cool girl. Do you want a beer bottle shifter.LOL
Pm
I will send you Photo of me.LOL HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

Originally Posted by DRavenS13

luisgonz- i'm a girl, you idiot.

ixfxi- i never considered you an enemy, just an asshole. you've been upgraded to an asshole I can tolerate.

I went to Lynwood High school- that shit is more ghetto than anything in Hollywood or Fairfax could ever offer. When people get shot in the front on the first day of school, or there's race wars during school, or there's people having sex on the stairwells and no one is fazed by that, or there's kids selling drugs to the security guards- yea, that's pretty ghetto.