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I'm not saying I hit them EVERY TIME they do something bad. I don't punish them when they make a mistake. They'll get verbal warnings, and if they're still acting like assholes, then they get an ear pulled.
All that stuff is well and good about your wife, but those are not her kids. She's a teacher, and she's doing exactly what she's supposed to do for those kids. At the end of the day, those kids go home and she doesn't have to deal with them anymore. It's good that she cares enough to show those kids good things, but any kind of real life shit, they gotta learn from the parents. All that psycho-babble shit is good, but for parents that don't know how to control their anger and take it out on their kids. Prime example- my mother tries to use all that psycho-babble shit on my kids. Time-out, blah blah. You know what they do? They'll sit there, and then they'll go back to the bad shit they were doing. Why? Because it's not a real punishment. All you're doing is letting them rest and plot the next act of assery. Now, if I see they're doing some shit, and I get up- All I need to do is get up and look at them. That shit stops right there. And they don't do it again. Because they know. They don't want to deal with me. About me and my grandmother- when you have a puppy, and you're teaching it to be house-broken, how many times do you have to go over and over with the puppy until he gets the hint? Do you send the puppy on a time-out? Hell no, because he doesn't know what the fuck that is. He's gonna continue to shit all over the house. Or eat your shoes. Or scratch the door and whine. It takes stages and a lot of patience and discipline to teach them everything they need to know to get through the rest of their life. It's takes A LOT of patience to raise kids. That's why I tell everyone I know not to have them. There are times when I want to strangle them for the shit they do or say. Do I do it? No, because I know better than that. Sometimes, they do need that kick in the ass (not literally) to get them to see that what they're doing is wrong. Sometimes talk isn't gonna do it- I think society and the way it is now is enough proof of that. That's why I endorse ixfxi for President. LOL, just kidding, not really. I'd be the first in line to assassinate him. ![]() |
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