relationship advice plez help super confused

[azndoc]

Here is my advice.

Man up take care of your kid, if it is your kid. Doesn't sound like this Liz girl is a catch.

Just another hoe with daddy problems looking for a man to fulfill her insecurities.

Then take a 6 months off. Don't fuck with no chicks and just hang out with your boys and work on your own shit.

You'd be surprised the amount of shit you get done without female problems cluttering up your life.

[ericcastro]

Originally Posted by azndoc

Here is my advice.

Man up take care of your kid, if it is your kid. Doesn't sound like this Liz girl is a catch.

Just another hoe with daddy problems looking for a man to fulfill her insecurities.

Then take a 6 months off. Don't fuck with no chicks and just hang out with your boys and work on your own shit.

You'd be surprised the amount of shit you get done without female problems cluttering up your life.

Not reading the rest of the post.
Jack said it.

Are you a pathetic fucking chick??
Whats wrong with being single and sorting YOUR shit out??
Or is it everyone else that seems to be causeing the problems? nothing to do with you right??

People on here are not thinking, or thinking small town old school.
If the kid is yours, then take care of it like a man.
But that DOES NOT MEAN GETTING BACK TOGETHER WITH THE GIRL!!!
Have the courts figure out your child support, and make payments.
Otherwise, this Liz, will fuck you over in the end maybe.
Paternity test are over the counter and cost barely anything.
You just mail in some urine.
So get that first step over with and see if its yours.
Otherwise, guess who gets a house and a car back?
If the little one is yours, ask her what the child needs?
basinette? crip? diapers? formula?
cloths? stroller? blanket? breast pump?
doctors visits? toys?
its your child, its really hard for single moms.
So be supportive without getting back together.

Also, realize she has a right to be angry.
Its not at just you.
But your the only target thats easy to deal with.
She probbly had big plans for life in her mind, and all that has changed now.
Its her fault and yours, but its easier to blame you then look in the mirror.

so just say, Im sorry for my part in your life not going in the direction you have planned. But NEVER apologies for the incidents that involve having the little dude/dudet.

Life isnt all about you now, its about a child.

If you are taking care of your child, your new chick will probably have issues with your amount of contact with your X anyways.
So just have PROTECTED fun with girls, but dont be a fucking pussy and get serious with every chick that gives you the time of day.

BTW, OC population statistics for 2009 were over 3.1 million.
What the fuck are you still wasting time with the same ol chicks for.
Stop being pathetic and move on!