Vasectomy? Yay or Nay?

[lewisfk]

no, it doesnt matter how u feel! If u find the right woman and she has the desire to have a kid, now what! Plus i use to assist with the procedure at my clinic and its very easy to due but hard as fuck to undo regardless of the results! this comment is for anyone who is thinking of doing this!

[drift freaq]

Originally Posted by trigjones

What now? I am assuming this means that Person A (me) is a total p*ssy that can't stand up for himself, and as soon as I meet a girl that wants a kid, I am going to allow her to tell me what to do and what path to take in life.

Any guy out here who feels they need to do what their girlfriend wants beyond reasonable requests needs to man up. Watch Fight Club and pay attention to the dialogue when they are talking about being raised by single mothers. Don't be that dude standing outside the dressing room holding the girls purse. They do that ish so they can put you on display, so every other girl there will know that you can be manipulated.

Stop doing sh*t just because its a girl saying to do it, sex isn't that special that you need to give up your balls to get laid.

Wow lack of maturity owns you. LOL
First off all relationships are about compromise. Something that seems to be lost on you by the way you go on in this thread.
Second off, if you think everything you feel right now at the age of 27 is how you are going to feel at the age of 38? Well you are so clueless its not even funny.

Dude you have barely grown into a man at the age of 27 maturity wise.

Sorry guys but is a fact. Women usually mature emotionally fully around 24-25 guys usually 27-28.


Men do mature a lot later than women and we grow a lot wiser in our 30's.

Just because a guy is willing to go shopping with his girl or hold her purse outside a dressing room does not mean he is less of a man. It usually means he is a Gentleman and has realized relationships are about compromise.

He knows if he is willing to do that at least once in awhile he can do the things the girl may not be the least bit interested in doing.

If you think that makes him less of man? Then your lack of understanding of what makes a relationship work is phenomenal.

Oh and following Fight Club a fictional movie as grounds for how a man should conduct himself is ludicrous.

I live in Hollywood I know what film writers are like and moral compasses they are not! LOL

Oh and yes you should get a vasectomy because you would make an absolutely horrible father. Based off your own words in this thread.