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Matej · 02-05-2009, 08:39 AM

By yes she obviously meant, "I'm sooo confused y'all!"

aziankingz · 02-05-2009, 08:49 AM

Damn you got played.. That always sucks.. She probably loves doing that to guys..

**Phlip** · 02-05-2009, 09:12 AM

If I were in this situation, at the ONSET of the flaking. I have a one-strike rule when it comes to flaking chicks. There is no redeeming amount of "hot" to make up for bullshit. You're better off without her and probably best to not even converse with her at all unless you have to. Don't grant her anymore of the attention she is desperately seeking with her recreational homosexuality, let her die dumb. Don't tell her you're done with it, just be done with it.

-Phlip; swift to cut a bitch off, there is entirely too many in the world to go chasing after one.

codunc · 02-05-2009, 09:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PHLIP

If I were in this situation, at the ONSET of the flaking. I have a one-strike rule when it comes to flaking chicks. There is no redeeming amount of "hot" to make up for bullshit. You're better off without her and probably best to not even converse with her at all unless you have to. Don't grant her anymore of the attention she is desperately seeking with her recreational homosexuality, let her die dumb. Don't tell her you're done with it, just be done with it.

-Phlip; swift to cut a bitch off, there is entirely too many in the world to go chasing after one.

definately words to live by

Marcus · 02-05-2009, 11:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PHLIP

If I were in this situation, at the ONSET of the flaking. I have a one-strike rule when it comes to flaking chicks. There is no redeeming amount of "hot" to make up for bullshit..

LOL
no matter how hot she is, somewhere, somebody is tired of her shit.

**Phlip** · 02-05-2009, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Marcus

LOL
no matter how hot she is, somewhere, somebody is tired of her shit.

Which, I promise, is why I enacted the 1-strike rule. I been young and dumb before, kept chasing a trifling broad. Looking back, I felt stupid, but I learned from it. Never again. Zero tolerance and I am fine with the same treatment in return.

***Future240*** · 02-05-2009, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by PHLIP

Which, I promise, is why I enacted the 1-strike rule. I been young and dumb before, kept chasing a trifling broad. Looking back, I felt stupid, but I learned from it. Never again. Zero tolerance and I am fine with the same treatment in return.

Same here, chasing this one chick fucked me up for a while. I made that clear to my current gf as well that if she ever left I would not be chasin after her.

She had that proved to her when she yelled at me once and walked out of the room. Later on she said she was standing outside for a while wondering if I was going to come after her. Needless to say she didn't try that again

Silverstreek · 02-05-2009, 10:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PHLIP

If I were in this situation, at the ONSET of the flaking. I have a one-strike rule when it comes to flaking chicks. There is no redeeming amount of "hot" to make up for bullshit. You're better off without her and probably best to not even converse with her at all unless you have to. Don't grant her anymore of the attention she is desperately seeking with her recreational homosexuality, let her die dumb. Don't tell her you're done with it, just be done with it.

-Phlip; swift to cut a bitch off, there is entirely too many in the world to go chasing after one.

damn good advice here.

**Phlip** · 02-05-2009, 09:28 AM

Also, it is HILARIOUS the number of "just fuck her anyway" posts...
While the acquisition of snatch is generally quite easy, this one has decided that she wants to be difficult in her own quest for attention. Frankly, I don't know or care what she looks like, but the situation as presented has made her more of a hassle than she is worth.
Leave it alone, seriously.

XeroX · 02-05-2009, 09:52 AM

That weird man...I have met a couple "bi" chicks that have played that stupid ass card, like they have some meaningful BI relationship with another female...yet at the same time are exclusive to one another?

Maybe im wrong, but being bi is a very UN-exclusive form of monogamy...You pick and choose one to have a relationship with...Then your just gay...or straight...you dont sit there and TOY with the thought of liking the OTHER sex...It defeats the whole point of a relationship....

IF you’re going to be exclusive with your relationships swingin both ways...it just doesn’t work...and this is a perfect example why....

I would just ignore her completely...see if she appologies to you again in person (if she does) and then just blow it off like it was nothing...then just start back where you came from....Being a panzy (good thing) and not asking her out...wait till she is crying over her "GF" and then just play captain curt bang it and leave it..hahah

WagDatto · 02-05-2009, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by XeroX

That weird man...I have met a couple "bi" chicks that have played that stupid ass card, like they have some meaningful BI relationship with another female...yet at the same time are exclusive to one another?

Maybe im wrong, but being bi is a very UN-exclusive form of monogamy...You pick and choose one to have a relationship with...Then your just gay...or straight...you dont sit there and TOY with the thought of liking the OTHER sex...It defeats the whole point of a relationship....

IF you’re going to be exclusive with your relationships swingin both ways...it just doesn’t work...and this is a perfect example why....

I would just ignore her completely...see if she appologies to you again in person (if she does) and then just blow it off like it was nothing...then just start back where you came from....Being a panzy (good thing) and not asking her out...wait till she is crying over her "GF" and then just play captain curt bang it and leave it..hahah

Damn, Kelly.... Bitches be crazy up in the Sacto. Go back to the510realm, emo kid.

***Future240*** · 02-05-2009, 10:09 AM

I say keep her around for free food hookup, and potential threesome, always nice to have a fall back

Flicktitty · 02-05-2009, 10:17 AM

fuckin girls man...

TheRonTom31 · 02-05-2009, 10:18 AM

I could make this into a movie.

or wait there already is a similar one...Chasing Amy. Anyone remember that?

Fries · 02-05-2009, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by irax

So today one of the super cute chicks that works at domino's pizza came to my work today. And I was like fuck it I'll ask her out.

here is how the conversation went.

Her*walks in on the phone constantly looking back at me*
Me:Hey whats up! who's that on the phone your booyyfriiend?
Her: I don't have a boy friend *bats eyes*
Me: sweet then would you want a go out some time?
Her: YES *EMPHATICALLY*
Me:wait... what???? that's not supposed to work
Me: when is good for you?
her: the next time we have a day off together
Me: sun mon tuesday?
Me*writes my number on a paper*: just give me a call in a few
Her*big fucking smile*: Sure cya

so... i am like fucking static... it never went that well EVER before... I was like.. what the fuck? did that just happen? yes it did because

BZZZZ!!!

txt frm her

Her: hey I just talked with my girlfriend and I can't go out with you

I'm like... WTF???

Me: wait.. what?? why??

Her: because she would be jealous

Me: well maybe we could double

Her: then i would get jealous

Me: wait Ill bring a friend and you bring your friend

Her: we tried that before and it didn't work in the past

Me: wait what???

Her: I'm bi, didn't you know?

Me: nope

Her: I'm sorry

Me: you owe me one for saying yes then saying no, never have i ever been soo happy then soo disappointed so fast in my whole life

Her: I'm sorry

Me: well can we at least be friends then? if that is acceptable to your gf?

Her*changes subject*

so I'm like w/e.... but thinking about hot dominos delivery girl on girl action made me really want some dominos

so not even thinking about it, wither or not she was working at the time. I assumed she was just on her way home as she came in originally.

So I take a short bike ride to domino's pizza. As I walk in to make an order I see her looking at me with a wired face but i glanced over and pretended that she wasn't there. I order a philly hot sandwich which is probably the best philly styled sandwich in my local area. And the guys said it would take 15 minutes so I waited out side and had a cig just chillin. and I get a text

Her:I'm sorry my gf is in here

WTF?? as if i went there for her right?

Me: its cool w/e, I came here for food not to see you, look I am not the type to tare apart a relationship if friendship is not ok let me know I don't want to cause problems.

and normally she replies back like in a minute or two, and that last text was sent at 8:45 pm.... so clearly her lack of response is an indication of what it is.

but really all she had to do was when i asked her out was to say "Sorry I am seeing some one right now"

and not a fucking YES like she was waiting for me to ask her out her whole life.

Honestly I'm just glad it went so quickly I have always had the bad luck of drama getting drawn own and made bigger than it is.

CLIFF NOTES:

I asked a girl out
she said yes
then said no
turns out she was bi
and had a gf currently
she continues to mix signals
i just wanted food
she made wired comment

I LOL

Hil-Fucking-Larious!

Sorry about the loss dude, but thats too fucking funny!

Bubbles · 02-05-2009, 10:52 AM

I outlined some stuff to help clear up the situation.

Quote:

Originally Posted by irax

Her: then i would get jealous

This right here is your first sign.

She would be jealous of her girlfriend with somebody else which is an obvious sign she cares about her.

Quote:

Originally Posted by irax

Me: you owe me one for saying yes then saying no, never have i ever been soo happy then soo disappointed so fast in my whole life

She's already said no, saying this isn't going to help anything.

Quote:

Originally Posted by irax

Me: well can we at least be friends then? if that is acceptable to your gf?

How many of your friends did you ask to become friends?

Zero, that's what I thought.

Hanging around hoping to bang her by earning her trust isn't going to happen.

Quote:

Originally Posted by irax

so not even thinking about it, wither or not she was working at the time. I assumed she was just on her way home as she came in originally.

Wait....I thought you weren't thinking about it?

Quote:

Originally Posted by irax

Me: its cool w/e, I came here for food not to see you, look I am not the type to tare apart a relationship if friendship is not ok let me know I don't want to cause problems.

She already did let you know.

Besides you came for the food not to talk about your relationship, right?

Quote:

Originally Posted by irax

but really all she had to do was when i asked her out was to say "Sorry I am seeing some one right now"

You're exactly right but she is a girl and will never answer anything directly but instead will give many hints.

Pick up on the hints.

HyperTek · 02-05-2009, 11:11 AM

imma take a guess that she wasnt really on the phone the first time, just something to keep her busy when she goes into your place.. than she easily said yes for whatever reason, thinking maybe your cute. But then later she decides not to , esp since you may sometimes be on her delivery route or whatever it might not be a good idea. so she texts you no. Than you show up and she sees you, so her reaction is "omg what is he doing here, is he trying to stalk me?".

so yeah, girls are evil.

You could always flip it later though.. .just dont think about her, but let time pass, if she shows up again, be like "hey me and some friends are going to be going to this club on so and so, you should check it out. you can bring your gf or whatever"... dont think too much of it, but if she shows up, you can build up from there,.. "hey wanna dance?" etc

**Phlip** · 02-05-2009, 11:26 AM

^^^
NO!!!
From the moment they last spoke, any advances from him would be considered sweating her, which he is absolutely NOT to do under any circumstances. If anything is to take place, then she is to initiate it and be willing to be shot down more than twice.

stiizy · 02-05-2009, 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PHLIP

^^^
NO!!!
From the moment they last spoke, any advances from him would be considered sweating her, which he is absolutely NOT to do under any circumstances. If anything is to take place, then she is to initiate it and be willing to be shot down more than twice.

Word no sweating hoes, if she wants it she should be the one to put the offer on the table...

She's one of those chicks who are probably in it for the chase, i hate broads like that and they're usually the one who are fine as fuckin hell......

Leave that chick alone

/end of story!

jackjack · 02-05-2009, 11:27 AM

wtf???? ahahhahhahha. damn thats crazy.

BustedS13 · 02-05-2009, 11:51 AM

you fucked up by asking out somebody who works at Dominos. everybody there was pretty fucked in the head when i delivered

TheRonTom31 · 02-05-2009, 11:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BustedS13

you fucked up by asking out somebody who works at Dominos. everybody there was pretty fucked in the head when i delivered

SO your saying your fucked in the head

I think Philp is right. Never sweat a chick, they wont want you. Make them chase you and they will be all over you no matter what you do

**Phlip** · 02-05-2009, 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheRonTom31

SO your saying oyur fucked in the head

I think Philp is right. Never sweat a chick, they wont want you. Make them chase you and they will be all over you no matter what you do

I don't recall him denying being fucked in the head

BustedS13 · 02-05-2009, 12:03 PM

>.>
<.<

HaMBURGERS

legacy927 · 02-05-2009, 12:19 PM

can we get the pics of the girl already? lol

stiizy · 02-05-2009, 12:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by legacy927

can we get the pics of the girl already? lol

Don't think he has pics and if he does, that is stalker-ish like crazy...

legacy927 · 02-05-2009, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by stiizy

Don't think he has pics and if he does, that is stalker-ish like crazy...

hahahahahha...very tru..just wana see if she's really that hot looking...

**Phlip** · 02-05-2009, 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by legacy927

can we get the pics of the girl already? lol

Please don't, that is where the problems invariably start in these threads.

legacy927 · 02-05-2009, 12:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PHLIP

Please don't, that is where the problems invariably start in these threads.

hahahahhaa....fine....lol

TheRonTom31 · 02-05-2009, 12:30 PM

pm me the ninja stalker pics i know that you took

02-05-2009, 09:12 AM	#3
Phlip Yes, I look like that Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: In my supervillain's lair Posts: 27,980 Trader Rating: (19) Rides Gallery: Phlip Feedback Score: 19 reviews	If I were in this situation, at the ONSET of the flaking. I have a one-strike rule when it comes to flaking chicks. There is no redeeming amount of "hot" to make up for bullshit. You're better off without her and probably best to not even converse with her at all unless you have to. Don't grant her anymore of the attention she is desperately seeking with her recreational homosexuality, let her die dumb. Don't tell her you're done with it, just be done with it. -Phlip; swift to cut a bitch off, there is entirely too many in the world to go chasing after one. __________________ Weirdo And I write too!

02-05-2009, 09:28 AM	#9
Phlip Yes, I look like that Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: In my supervillain's lair Posts: 27,980 Trader Rating: (19) Rides Gallery: Phlip Feedback Score: 19 reviews	Also, it is HILARIOUS the number of "just fuck her anyway" posts... While the acquisition of snatch is generally quite easy, this one has decided that she wants to be difficult in her own quest for attention. Frankly, I don't know or care what she looks like, but the situation as presented has made her more of a hassle than she is worth. Leave it alone, seriously. __________________ Weirdo And I write too!

02-05-2009, 10:17 AM	#13
Flicktitty Post Whore! Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Wisconsin Age: 38 Posts: 3,686 Trader Rating: (13) Feedback Score: 13 reviews	fuckin girls man... __________________ 2JZ-GTE Swapped S13 Coupe - 1994 Supra Turbo

02-05-2009, 11:11 AM	#17
HyperTek Post Whore! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Cali Posts: 13,224 Trader Rating: (3) Feedback Score: 3 reviews	imma take a guess that she wasnt really on the phone the first time, just something to keep her busy when she goes into your place.. than she easily said yes for whatever reason, thinking maybe your cute. But then later she decides not to , esp since you may sometimes be on her delivery route or whatever it might not be a good idea. so she texts you no. Than you show up and she sees you, so her reaction is "omg what is he doing here, is he trying to stalk me?". so yeah, girls are evil. You could always flip it later though.. .just dont think about her, but let time pass, if she shows up again, be like "hey me and some friends are going to be going to this club on so and so, you should check it out. you can bring your gf or whatever"... dont think too much of it, but if she shows up, you can build up from there,.. "hey wanna dance?" etc __________________ Keep it Classy

02-05-2009, 11:26 AM	#18
Phlip Yes, I look like that Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: In my supervillain's lair Posts: 27,980 Trader Rating: (19) Rides Gallery: Phlip Feedback Score: 19 reviews	^^^ NO!!! From the moment they last spoke, any advances from him would be considered sweating her, which he is absolutely NOT to do under any circumstances. If anything is to take place, then she is to initiate it and be willing to be shot down more than twice. __________________ Weirdo And I write too!

02-05-2009, 08:39 AM	#1
Matej Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: N/A Posts: 9,423 Trader Rating: (39) Feedback Score: 39 reviews	By yes she obviously meant, "I'm sooo confused y'all!"

02-05-2009, 08:49 AM	#2
aziankingz Nissanaholic! Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: NYC Age: 41 Posts: 1,735 Trader Rating: (28) Feedback Score: 28 reviews	Damn you got played.. That always sucks.. She probably loves doing that to guys..

02-05-2009, 09:52 AM	#10
XeroX Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Sacramento, CA Age: 41 Posts: 307 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	That weird man...I have met a couple "bi" chicks that have played that stupid ass card, like they have some meaningful BI relationship with another female...yet at the same time are exclusive to one another? Maybe im wrong, but being bi is a very UN-exclusive form of monogamy...You pick and choose one to have a relationship with...Then your just gay...or straight...you dont sit there and TOY with the thought of liking the OTHER sex...It defeats the whole point of a relationship.... IF you’re going to be exclusive with your relationships swingin both ways...it just doesn’t work...and this is a perfect example why.... I would just ignore her completely...see if she appologies to you again in person (if she does) and then just blow it off like it was nothing...then just start back where you came from....Being a panzy (good thing) and not asking her out...wait till she is crying over her "GF" and then just play captain curt bang it and leave it..hahah

02-05-2009, 10:18 AM	#14
TheRonTom31 Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Saratoga, NY Age: 42 Posts: 775 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	I could make this into a movie. or wait there already is a similar one...Chasing Amy. Anyone remember that?

02-05-2009, 11:27 AM	#20
jackjack Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Chi Posts: 2,899 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	wtf???? ahahhahhahha. damn thats crazy.

02-05-2009, 11:51 AM	#21
BustedS13 Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Phoenix AZ Age: 40 Posts: 10,287 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	you fucked up by asking out somebody who works at Dominos. everybody there was pretty fucked in the head when i delivered __________________

02-05-2009, 12:03 PM	#24
BustedS13 Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Phoenix AZ Age: 40 Posts: 10,287 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	>.> <.< HaMBURGERS __________________

02-05-2009, 12:19 PM	#25
legacy927 Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: ny, ny Posts: 477 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	can we get the pics of the girl already? lol

02-05-2009, 12:30 PM	#30
TheRonTom31 Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Saratoga, NY Age: 42 Posts: 775 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	pm me the ninja stalker pics i know that you took