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DETT · 10-30-2009, 08:03 PM

Alright guys this is gonna be a little long winded, but please bare with me.

And first off to anyone that wants to come in here with a shitty attitude or say something stupid please just don't bother, I'm sure I am gonna get a lot of shit on this subject so just try to refrain from judging.

Ok now that all that is out of the way I will give you the prelude to my big issue. I went to germany a few years back to tour and visit family and made pretty much a trek over europe, pretty much all the basic trips (Uk, france, Ireland, Scotland, Germany, italy, Greece, Poland) it was myself, my friend James, and his girlfriend that went. Well our 2nd week in we were staying with my relatives that lived a little outside of munich. We went out drinking one night and I met this girl named Alex, we hit it off really well, her dad lived in Berlin, and her mom lives in Wagrowiec (sp?) Poland. We ended up hanging out alot my last 3 weeks I was their and messed around a bit.

Well fast forward to now, we have kept in touch ever since I left europe and we typically talk 2-3 times a week either on phone or through messenger services, and we usually get to do video chat once or twice a month if we both get the time considering the time zone changes and mine and hers workload. Well we have both respecitvely had relationships since we have been together but we always stay close friends... Hell she knows more about me than any of my other friends and she is about the only female I really trust.

Well the other day we got to do some video chat since both of us were off from work, apparently she split up with her last boyfriend because he had a problem with her speaking with me all the time, I told her that she shouldn't have done that considering I was so far away, she pretty much busted out in tears and professed her love for me and told me that she can't really see herself with anyone else since we were together.

I'm currently not home right now and in AZ for business but I return in November and she was talking about coming to visit me for a few weeks when I return and I really don't know where to go from here and if things do get considerably serious what options do we have? I know that I can get citizenship in Germany considering I have family and plenty of sponsors and could get a job very easily but I have so much here, her on the other hand she is still a student, but could easily get a job here as well with the degree she has but I have no idea on immigration laws for the US.

So guys tell me what you think because I am literally at a standstill right now with the whole situation....

Sorry for the long read

*Cliffnotes
Went to germany
Met hot chick
Hooked up with said hot chick
Girl wants to come see me and try to start relationship
Don't know where to go with relationship.

10-30-2009, 08:03 PM	#1
DETT Leaky Injector Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: N. KY Age: 37 Posts: 86 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	I need some help and maybe some thoughts on a female situation... Alright guys this is gonna be a little long winded, but please bare with me. And first off to anyone that wants to come in here with a shitty attitude or say something stupid please just don't bother, I'm sure I am gonna get a lot of shit on this subject so just try to refrain from judging. Ok now that all that is out of the way I will give you the prelude to my big issue. I went to germany a few years back to tour and visit family and made pretty much a trek over europe, pretty much all the basic trips (Uk, france, Ireland, Scotland, Germany, italy, Greece, Poland) it was myself, my friend James, and his girlfriend that went. Well our 2nd week in we were staying with my relatives that lived a little outside of munich. We went out drinking one night and I met this girl named Alex, we hit it off really well, her dad lived in Berlin, and her mom lives in Wagrowiec (sp?) Poland. We ended up hanging out alot my last 3 weeks I was their and messed around a bit. Well fast forward to now, we have kept in touch ever since I left europe and we typically talk 2-3 times a week either on phone or through messenger services, and we usually get to do video chat once or twice a month if we both get the time considering the time zone changes and mine and hers workload. Well we have both respecitvely had relationships since we have been together but we always stay close friends... Hell she knows more about me than any of my other friends and she is about the only female I really trust. Well the other day we got to do some video chat since both of us were off from work, apparently she split up with her last boyfriend because he had a problem with her speaking with me all the time, I told her that she shouldn't have done that considering I was so far away, she pretty much busted out in tears and professed her love for me and told me that she can't really see herself with anyone else since we were together. I'm currently not home right now and in AZ for business but I return in November and she was talking about coming to visit me for a few weeks when I return and I really don't know where to go from here and if things do get considerably serious what options do we have? I know that I can get citizenship in Germany considering I have family and plenty of sponsors and could get a job very easily but I have so much here, her on the other hand she is still a student, but could easily get a job here as well with the degree she has but I have no idea on immigration laws for the US. So guys tell me what you think because I am literally at a standstill right now with the whole situation.... Sorry for the long read *Cliffnotes Went to germany Met hot chick Hooked up with said hot chick Girl wants to come see me and try to start relationship Don't know where to go with relationship.